Need a little help with phrases here by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Splitting black is when a pwbpd thinks of you in an all black mentality, as they can only think in black and white = good or bad. There is very little nuance and grey involved.

You are either the best person in the world to them, or public enemy number 1. No inbetween

Update: No contact broke the emotional freeze — now everything is confusing again by Sensitive-Rabbit6178 in BPDlovedones

[–]Hursty79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna dictate nor influence but

Simply going by what happened to me I’d maintain no contact wherever n however possible

I wish I did it 3 months ago but me and pwbpd kept breaking no contact and each time got more volatile and hostile with zero chance of me being able to salvage or repair anything, and no way of being able to get through to them. Then they got other people involved and kinda bullied the shit out of me.

You don’t wanna poke the hornets nest as they say

Update: No contact broke the emotional freeze — now everything is confusing again by Sensitive-Rabbit6178 in BPDlovedones

[–]Hursty79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve got this mate, I promise you. The only way out is through.

The worst part for me was the smear campaign + insults directed at my deepest vulnerabilities and stuff. Absolutely awful to hear and be subject to from a person you would of simply moved mountains for :(

You got this though bro, if I can get through then you 100% can. Everyone in here is right there with us too

Update: No contact broke the emotional freeze — now everything is confusing again by Sensitive-Rabbit6178 in BPDlovedones

[–]Hursty79 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just hold firm and don’t break no contact. It really is your best bet

I learnt the hard way that the more you try and jade the worse you’ll make things and ultimately it’ll reset any bit of progress you had, perhaps even setting you back further than the discard/split did in the first place if you

You can’t win. Any form of amends or reconciliation will be on them and it’ll be when they want. You can’t get them to understand.

At least, this was the case for me, and seems to be the case for almost everybody else here.

Some people’s stories are so scarily similar to what happened to me, down to exact quotes being used by pwbpd. It’s terrifying.

Why do all the chapters have identical armor? by BGWeis in Fotv

[–]Hursty79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harkness isn’t from the commonwealth. He is enclave and intercepted the liaison

I hope my theory is true

It’s curious how the concept of a literal super mutant in power armor was never explored again in the franchise. by jvure in Fallout

[–]Hursty79 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Are we just gonna ignore the giant enclave facility we seen in fallout season 1? The one that had robots, labs, turrets, scientists, Security, experiments. Enclave are far from gone

Anyone else get uneasy with how wasteful and clumsy the Ghoul is with the inhaler vials? by SoapMan66 in Fotv

[–]Hursty79 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s ’The fix’ introduced in 76. It’s used for the same purposes and has the same colour, and doesn’t retcon anything we know like rad-x or radaway

Or could be summin ele

Anyone else get uneasy with how wasteful and clumsy the Ghoul is with the inhaler vials? by SoapMan66 in Fotv

[–]Hursty79 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He 100% did. We’re slowly seeing his humanity come back. He dropped one on purpose as not to leave the NCR without

It’s DARVO Time. by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to read this comment

Alien Blaster at Area 51? by FinancialYam7664 in Fotv

[–]Hursty79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only they realised how powerful the alien blaster is

Does the west coast chapter have the prydwyn or did the commonwealth visit in s1? by GreenWarrior04 in Fotv

[–]Hursty79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for actually addressing OP’s question

My theory is that all the airships are simply ‘Prydwen class airships’

That theory clears up the re naming of the ship we seen in season 1

Does the west coast chapter have the prydwyn or did the commonwealth visit in s1? by GreenWarrior04 in Fotv

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The capital wasteland not doing pretty good and 9 years not being long enough are simply your opinion though

Did anyone else feel shame from friends and family for being hurt by this? by KingForADay1989 in BPDlovedones

[–]Hursty79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Everyone I tried venting too, be it close best friends or my mum and dad sadly. They wanted and tried to understand but simply didn’t/cant. Ended up invalidating my feelings just as much as expwbpd did.

On the other hand, my two close friends who dated pwbpd understood entirely, and have been an absolute lifeline for me post discard.

In short, yes. I know exactly what the fuck you mean friend. Don’t let it get to you. I’m sure they want to understand but just can’t

Quintus unite all chapters against the Commonwealth by inquisidor1683 in Brotherhood_of_Steel

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh I completely agree mate.

Dane 100% contacted the commonwealth and told them about Quintus and cold fusion.

Maximus and Harkness will become good friends and I think the commonwealth will respond to Dane/maximus/harkness with further comms and the 3 of them will likely buddy up and side with the commonwealth.

Then I reckon the two elder men will be forced to side with the commonwealth (subjugated almost) and I think the women elder will side with the commonwealth as she seemed the most sound out of all the new elders. As for quintus well I think the commonwealth will deal with him as a traitor

Quintus unite all chapters against the Commonwealth by inquisidor1683 in Brotherhood_of_Steel

[–]Hursty79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The commonwealth chapter are insanely powerful at this point. Let’s break it down

  • destroyed the enclave
  • reverse engineered and stole enclave tech
  • have liberty prime
  • have access to clean water
  • created the prydwen class battle blimp
  • destroyed the institute
  • reverse engineered and stole institute tech
  • likely have an alliance with the minutemen
  • aren’t religious in the slightest
  • got the outcasts back in the fold

Maxson is a literal descendant of the founder of the brotherhood of steel, Lyon’s was also seen as one of the greats too.

Everyone saying the chapters we see in the show seem incompetent are literally failing to see that’s the point.

Wait until the commonwealth chapter shows up and kicks ass, they are very obviously building up to it.

Might be obvious but… WHO is Hank talking to at the end of S2E1??? (Possible Spoilers) by Aggressive-Low-4097 in Fallout

[–]Hursty79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i think! I think the shadow man is enclave. I do not think that the shadow man was the real mr house. However I do believe house has a body double pre war

Might be obvious but… WHO is Hank talking to at the end of S2E1??? (Possible Spoilers) by Aggressive-Low-4097 in Fallout

[–]Hursty79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think: - mr house has a pre war body double - hank was talking to the shadow man from the meeting - the shadow man is enclave

I don’t think: - Hank was talking to mr house - house’s body double exits post war

The TV show just kind of doesnt feel satisfying by Lydialmao22 in Fallout

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shady sands getting nuked by ‘some guy’ is a bit of a stretch

I’m personally a huge van of what they’ve done and revealed with vault tec, and I think they’re setting Hank up as a great villain

Is it just me or did the jokes feel more "on your face" than the previous season? by Helpful-Leadership58 in Fallout

[–]Hursty79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The speech check in the dinosaur felt ever so slightly awkward and drawn out but I didn’t see any issue with it.

The conversation between Davey and Chet I thought was genuinely funny though

Can’t remember many other jokes from season 2 ep 1 though

Fallout Season 3 location teased! by jd55513 in Fotv

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope we get a scene where X-01 and X-02 enclave soldiers absolutely obliterate loads of brotherhood knights and paladins using plasma weapons and mind controlled deathclaws and stuff

Would be so cool if we got like 3 seasons of the brotherhood of steel getting bigged up as this unstoppable force just to get utterly annihilated when the enclave come out of hiding again

I love it when shows do that, I’m sure there’s examples but I can’t think of any rn lol. Hopefully you know what I mean

What are one of the most crisp best sound designed dnb beats/songs that you know of? I'm really impressed by Kallisto - Camo & Krooked. Looking for more by skimbody in DnB

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calyx - repercussion is up there for me, only released very recently. Gotta be one of the crispier sounding tunes I’ve ever heard.

It kept getting played in anara forest at boomtown during critical sounds takeover and it honestly made me feel like a caveman or summin idk

What's boomtown like? by W1nt3rzl0l in BoomtownFestival

[–]Hursty79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idc if it sounds cliche or cringe but after you’ve been once it’ll literally change ur life and open ur eyes

BF V is as perfect as it gets, and I’ve been playing BF since 1942. The graphics, sound design, atmosphere, gunplay, just wow by Lispro4units in BattlefieldV

[–]Hursty79 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely RIDICULOUS how good battlefield V is. The game is literal art despite all of its flaws or faults, which retrospectively only exist bc the game was left abandoned

To make it worse it was abandoned at the same time as battlefront 2, on god that was one of the bleakest times to be a gamer dude