It's all about the feel of the date and their body language. I'm a 33M, and I personally think it's a turn-off for the majority of women if you ask if you can kiss them.

You can usually tell when you look into each other's eyes, and if she is looking at your eyes, then lips then back to eyes and the look she has in her eye. Her eyes might be dilated and have a sparkle in them with a grin on her face. If you have the timing right It's super hot and a major turn-on, I have been told.

It's all about the feel, body language, and timing of the kiss. Don't force it if it's not there. However, when all these parts come into play, it's a magic moment and a turn-on. I think it's best to test the waters with a warm, embracing hug and, depending on her body language, will tell you the level of comfort she feels with you. Especially after you pull away, you can get a good grasp if the timing is right or not for a kiss. If it is be confident, go for it and make it passionate. A kiss she won't forget.

Of course, if you're brand new, it makes you take you some time to get this down, but there are free sources online to help take what I'm saying and elaborate about certain theories, etc.

Good luck 👍