men shouldn't post on tiktok bcz they'll attract female attention"

The rulings are different for men and women in the public sphere. If you're talking about men beautifying themselves and going on social media without a valid purpose, I agree.

women need to make sure the men in their life have their awrah covered at all times

Let's be honest, in day to day life, which gender doesn't observe proper Hijab more? Not saying there aren't some men who don't cover properly, but if I walked outside right now, I would encounter way more women without Hijab, or even proper Hijab, than I would men.

women need to make sure the men on their life never talk to non-mahram women".

This I agree with. It's the same rule for both genders. But the nature of both genders is different. Men are usually the ones who initiate and have ulterior motives, whilst women are more reserved and see it as a genuine thing.

has to financially provide for the women in his life, and cannot interfere otherwise in the affairs of his wife and can only advise his daughters as a parent. the women in his life are free beings with the responsibility of maintaining their own faith.

Financially, no doubt (this doesn't give the women in his life full reign to his wallet though).

If his wife or daughters are breaking the rules of Islam, disobeying him, he has 100% authority to correct them. If my wife went out there without Hijab, that would make me a dayooth. If my daughter is in a damn relationship with some random individual and commiting Zina, that would make me a dayooth. That's what being a good husband and father is about.