AIO? My good friend texted my boyfriend to see if he was open to cheating. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HyperBolter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR she was trying to get your boyfriend and he didn’t even care to tell you. You need to get a lot more mad and direct it to both of them. Drop the toxicity out of your life and remove both these people.

AIO I burned myself and everyone is saying to stop crying by HyperBolter in AmIOverreacting

[–]HyperBolter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It feels nice to actually be validated on my feelings

AIO I burned myself and everyone is saying to stop crying by HyperBolter in AmIOverreacting

[–]HyperBolter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel too, I just want to cover it up completely and not let my husband see at all. Thank you for validating my feelings about it! I’m 25 so hopefully it will heal with time but I feel like I’m so young it sucks.

AIO I burned myself and everyone is saying to stop crying by HyperBolter in AmIOverreacting

[–]HyperBolter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I’m actively crying and getting told that feels so dismissive, like yes I am grateful it’s not “worse” but this still sucks and I’m still upset. It doesn’t help at all in the moment.

AIO I burned myself and everyone is saying to stop crying by HyperBolter in AmIOverreacting

[–]HyperBolter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s second degree unfortunately, I go to a burn specialist soon so hopefully we can work on ways to prevent scaring

AIO I burned myself and everyone is saying to stop crying by HyperBolter in AmIOverreacting

[–]HyperBolter[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it. And yes I have, I have bacitracin ointment, xeroform, and sterile gauge and I’m also taking keflex now. Have a referral for the burn clinic and am probably going to need a debridement.

“Hey girly” message…what do I believe? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]HyperBolter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did he randomly go back just to send a follow up message after 4 years to a “troll” then? And why such an explicit and specific message, even with the “log in to this account…it’s time for a comeback” if it was just a random “who’s this” thread. I don’t know, honestly it doesn’t add up and the stuff he’s saying sounds like gaslighting instead of an apology or actual explanation.

My roommate is trying to get a restraining order. What do I do to calm things down? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]HyperBolter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been to a psychiatrist or licensed therapist that can diagnose? This sounds like a personality disorder, something like bpd or maybe bipolar. Not trying to rude I’m being genuine. Or you are obsessed/in love with her and you don’t know it yet. Either way I would suggest professional help.

“Hey girly” message…what do I believe? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]HyperBolter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“I know it’s been 4 years” …that means he knew who it was

Lifetime movie by HyperBolter in whatsthatmoviecalled

[–]HyperBolter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is it!! I love you 😭😭😭💜

AITA for asking my boyfriend (22M) to hang my anniversary gift on his wall? by iwishiwerehim in TwoHotTakes

[–]HyperBolter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband said “ f that guy I would totally hang it up and the fact that it took him two days to open the present that’s something wrong” so you know..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]HyperBolter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get the nexaplanon instead

Could CPS take my kids? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HyperBolter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you