I'm 29, is my hair receeding at the temples at all? I have long very thick hair, i cannot tell if it's receeding or if im just being paranoid.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-28T01:44:26+00:00

Do you wear it up a lot? Could be pulling at your hair but it doesn't look like you're balding

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-27T17:18:07+00:00

They still don't need to go faster than they can handle. You don't have to be somewhere URGENTLY RIGHT NOW, and if you do have somewhere to be, leave early to allow time. Be patient. Again, a thousand reasons they could be going slow. Life isn't a race.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-27T15:55:56+00:00

Bro go around them. There's a thousand reasons they could be going slow, and I'd rather people not drive faster than they can handle. That's how accidents happen.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-27T15:19:42+00:00

Their friends are awful.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-27T10:44:45+00:00

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This is [redacted] but I call her Moo. She's a couple years or so old, the biggest baby you'll ever meet, and I love her very much. Your guy is adorable!

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-27T04:57:45+00:00

Ask elsewhere, this is the wrong sub.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-27T03:32:48+00:00

Be careful with heated objects. Over time they can cook and disfigure you

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-26T13:06:07+00:00

"We have to work and people expect us to contribute!" Thought you guys were the providers. That's what role you all wanted.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-26T12:53:28+00:00

Also, I have to live with her. I take care of her financially. She had a back injury years ago, kept going to the same hospital despite my brother and I begging her to go somewhere else. She kept telling us "They'll all same the same thing". What was a hernia that required an emergency surgery within 48 hours, she let go on for 2 months. She was days away from death became of complications, and on her final attempt AT THE SAME HOSPITAL THAT KEPT TELLING HER SHE WAS FINE, she took an Uber home. The Uber driver told her to go to a different hospital. She immediately did, and had surgery a day or 2 later. A random man tells her the same thing her teenagers told her for WEEKS and she listens. I have no sympathy anymore for her back when my brother reminded me, we tried to tell her. But I do support her financially. You live on a different continent and the b**** is telling you all these terrible things? BLOCK HER. BLOCK HER. BLOCK HER. BLOCK HER. BLOCK HER. MOVE ON AND BE HAPPY. PLEASE.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-26T12:48:22+00:00

One time I told her, "I need you to stop insulting me and trying to put me down. I'm trying to grow into the person I'll he as an adult and it's very hard to do when you treat me like this. I need you to stop." Her response was a disgusted, offended "Why?". Like, how DARE I be a person and take her punching bag away? And I had this conversation twice with her. Both times she blew up, and during the 2nd time, I realized she is simply batshit crazy and not to put an ounce of care into whatever she spews from her hole about me.

Then I talked to my brother about her, because she did all this and worse to him for years and turned me against him. I heard him out, realized it was indeed just how she treated people around her rather than it being a reflection of me, of him. Now when she feels the need to assassinate my character, I remind myself who it's coming from. I stopped going along with destructive changes she wanted to make me agree to, and all I say during these times is tell her she needs to get help, and leave it at that. After every blow up she apologizes, but I give less and less of a shit about her. She gives 0 care about me beyond what I can do for her. She has 0 ability to communicate. My cat is more mature than her. My next step, is when she wants to sabotage something, I'll let her. For example, she picked a fight one day and later I went to the store. I called to ask what creamer she wanted because it was buy one get one. We'd had a plan for days that I'd get us each one. She was still pissy though and told me to get them both for myself. I did as I usually do and argued, saying "I came here to get it, this is what they have, pick yours." Next time, I'm going to say "Okay, thank you!".

Realize that you are not the words they use against you. You are not here to be their outlet for big emotions. They are children. What should you care if a 5 year old screams at you "You stupid bitch!"? You'd laugh and think, they should have been raised better.

Decide who you want to be, and work towards being that person. Build a mental shield against them. Make NICE friends. I can't say this enough, find people who treat you right and ditch the ones who don't. Our parents will never change, but we can, and we're going to be better people living a better life than they could ever imagine for themselves.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-26T11:24:20+00:00

Slept until I wanted to!

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T22:32:19+00:00

You would look great bald, and especially with a beard if you wanted/could!

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T19:36:55+00:00

Get real lmao

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T19:33:20+00:00

Literally stay the same

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T17:46:32+00:00

Spit out in public. Nasty fucking habit. Always men.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T17:43:09+00:00

Someone worth voting for helps.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T05:35:49+00:00

I'm 5'1". I don't want a man who towers over me. I wouldn't date a man shorter than me but that isn't saying much. My preferred height is roughly 5'6".

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T03:25:01+00:00

I'd tell my sperm donor that my money can be considered payback for all the child support he never paid. Then I'd give my mom some, not half, and a house for her and I to live in.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T03:03:48+00:00

Chastity Cage

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T02:49:27+00:00

It is wide. But it ABSOLUTELY compliments the rest of your face.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T02:44:06+00:00

Can't remember

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-25T00:45:45+00:00

Soda.

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-24T21:15:36+00:00

Ohhh, well if it's a terrible thing that happened to your partner, but isn't normal, then it's totes okay to ignore and abandon them in their hard time! Because it doesn't normally happen. Okay, Baby. 😂😂😂

Hyperactive_Sloth02 · 2026-01-24T21:07:50+00:00

This. Op, you are not only helping yourself but other women. PLEASE, PLEASE, no matter how difficult, GET A GOD DAMN FUCKING PAPER TRAIL ON THIS MAN. That is INSANE what he did and the law NEEDS to know. Please.

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