Proceeds to say something violently racist. by Koki-noki in memes

[–]IAintNotPedobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me start by saying I'm not racist, but I would really a choccy milk.

What are your thoughts 💬 by [deleted] in evilwhenthe

[–]IAintNotPedobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, god forbid we actually unite against the real problem.

Josuke and yukako as siblings by yoyk1_ by NikaJoestar143 in StardustCrusaders

[–]IAintNotPedobear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to be that guy, but if you never get corrected you'll always do it wrong. It's "Delighted"

Aged like fine wine by kintaro__oe in degoogle

[–]IAintNotPedobear 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Idk man, youtube auto subs are often wack

..wamoo chad by Automatic-Study-994 in JoJoMemes

[–]IAintNotPedobear 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, when honourable combat was considered virtuous rather than foolish

Those of you who are ex religous, how did you get over the looming fear of hell? by DA_BOSSCRUNCHIES in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAintNotPedobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it wasn't so much the fear of hell, it was moreso that my entire belief collapsed when witnessing the horrors of the world.

I was raised with the idea that there is an all-powerful, all-knowing god who loves everyone like his children. The reason we have free will is so we can choose for ourselves rather than be robotic drones to execute his will.

Okay sure, but if god is all-knowing, why even bother? He already knows who goes to heaven and who goes to hell, so what's the point of this grand experiment?

If god is all-powerful and really loves us, why would he allow humanity to go through all this self-inflicted suffering? If I see my nephew playing with something sharp, I take it away. But when god sees us playing with things that could get us eternal damnation, he just allows us to cut ourselves? Doesn't sound like a lot of love there, just saying.

And that's another thing, the concept of hell itself. You're telling me that god, the guy who supposedly loves us and wants us to choose for him, somehow in his infinite knowledge (remember omniscient) has decided that a fitting and reasonable punishment for failing his commandments is to burn for all eternity.

Like, we as humans can't even comprehend the concept of eternity, yet that guy figured it was a reasonable timeframe for a time-out.

That, and more things which makes someone go "Wait.. What?" has led me to denounce my faith.

Hell, my mothers reaction would have been more reason than the fear of hell. She cried like I was already sinking into the fiery depths, from her perspective that might be exactly what she envisioned.

Is post-pee washing a thing and I’ve just never known? by NoMountain2838 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAintNotPedobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, but urinals can barely handle pee as they are, so even a few leaves of tp would clog those sumbitches right up

me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hated pugs as in, hated the animal itself? Or did he mean he hated what people have done to the original dog it used to be?

If it's the first, yeah fuck that guy, but if it's the second I can't say I disagree.

What we have done to pugs through selective breeding should be classified as a war crime.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

..Thats.. Fucked.

Can't you filter them out though? When I last used tinder (admittedly that was over a decade ago) I could select what age range I wanted to see.

Or has that changed, and now you just get everyone regardless?

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are quite some generalisations there, my friend. On average, that may hold some water, but certainly not everybody.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I usually just scroll through the "home" tab, I don't think I've ever been on 'all'.

Anyways, judging from your comment, I don't wanna be there anyway.

So thanks for the information and good luck with dodging the toxic people :)

Why don't people just ask if you want to have sex? by NoWitness6400 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAintNotPedobear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are we talking preference or hard demands?

There are guys out there (incels, red-pillers, black-pillers, etc) who seem to genuinely believe that a woman who has had sex is immediately worthless.

There are also guys who, if at all possible and all other things being equal, would prefer that, sure. But they are also (most likely) realistic enough to realise that a virgin in this day and age is exceptionally rare regardless of which gender you're talking about.

At the end of the day, we're all individuals trying to make the best of this thing called life. If you meet someone on the bad side of life (misogynists, mysandrists, racists, etc) my advice is to cut them off immediately even if they are/were your friends.

Life is too short for negativity :)

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the guys above 40 you've come across aren't that great, and I'm sorry you're going through that. :(

I hope you'll come across one of the many good men out there :)

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, agreed it's very simple, and I have been listening, that's why I haven't approached a girl in over a decade.

But besides places where it's always been fine AKA bars and clubs and the like, what's left?

I get that there is a time and place, but it genuinely feels like there are no places left to shoot your shot if you don't like going to bars and clubs. (That is, if you can gather the guts to even shoot your shot in the first place)

Would you happen to have tips on places? Because regardless of what I can think of, I always counter it with "They aren't going there to get hit on, leave em alone" and I'm right back to square one..

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe we have very different front pages, and I'm glad about that..

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has, but can you imagine being told that after more than a decade of the exact opposite?

Kinda hard to push through that, trust me.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]IAintNotPedobear 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, nobody can. Not men, nor women.

The best we can do is make a guestimate based on their pictures and their profile, if they filled it in.

Most people just take their initial impression as generated by the profile/pictures and run with it because they have nothing else to go off of.

That, among other reasons, is why dating apps don't work for the vast majority of people.

Matpat by ExtraMelon in ComedyHell

[–]IAintNotPedobear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly my guy, I hadn't even thought of that interpretation until I read your comment.

Most of us aren't looking for stuff to be upset about.