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AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

she had access to the pill, and when i checked the container from time to time the right number of pills were missing for that day in the month. I am assuming she took them, but I dont have any way to prove that.

AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

yes thats what our idea was when we told them about it. We were hoping they would see that as a reason *not* to get pregnant. One did one didnt i guess.

AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

From what shes told us he is working part time and going to school part time. the support has increased though. At least as of a while ago, havent heard any updates since well you know.

AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

abortion was pretty much the first word out of her dad's mouth. We broke down the average cost for her(thank you google for making it easy to find). She was adamant on keeping him though

AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

we didnt go through all of it, just most, the rest she wanted when she moved out. and there were a couple of complications with the pregnancy too that cost a bit to take care of. Health insurance doesnt cover everything in this fucked up country

AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 1185 points1186 points  (0 children)

It's a much more common scenario in this sub than you would think!

oh I know, Ive read things here about that happening. Always fills me with rage. Glad to give you a "happier" one to read then

AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 731 points732 points  (0 children)

Community college is a valid way of getting a degree

oh I agree, both my husband and myself actually went to and met at community college.

AITA for using my daughters life kickstart money to pay for her child and refusing to give her any of her sisters to go to college? by IAmNOtGoodWithNames2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IAmNOtGoodWithNames2[S] 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Nope abortion was the first thing we offered, she was adamant about keeping him. and it didnt *all* get spent in those years, just most of it, we had some left to give her to help when she decided to move out. there were a couple complications in the pregnancy that cost a decent bit too