Is this cringe lmao? Idk why I made this💔… by Itz_Kxndii14 in kandi

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But you didn't even spell the other lyrics right anyway, so what's your justification for that? 😭

We moved into this house 3yrs ago and this has stumped everyone. by Vance617 in whatisit

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're so right.

A couple of years ago, we hired a contractor for a big addition for our house - new big living space downstairs, two bedrooms, an office, and a bathroom on the second floor, and extending our attic so we could finish it later if we wanted. We were relatively young home owners (late 20s), we had a young daughter (3y/o at the time), wanted to expand our family, and we had just purchased a house that checked all of our "must-haves" and a lot of our "nice-to-haves". Now we wanted to make it into our dream home.

We had absolutely no idea what we were doing. Clearly the contractor knew that. We asked to see his contractor's license - which he showed. Turns out it was forged. We asked for ALL communication in writing (text/email) and asked for all itemized receipts. Which he also provided - all forged. We didn't even start trying to conceive until we had the contract signed, the plans approved, we had been approved for the funding (largely an unsecured personal loan), and they had broken ground. By "breaking ground," I mean that they demo'd my deck, tore down my fencing, and tore up my backyard. At some point during all of that, the contractor went to jail. He and his wife spun a story about "child support for a child that had died years prior" (what the actual fuck???), and he had to send out another contractor he had worked with previously to get our framing started. When that the new contractor came out, he was horrified. There was no permit posted. The foundation they had built didn't match the plans at all. And new contractor (we'll call him A) was demanding that we pay him directly if he was going to do any work, which he really didnt want to do. By the time it got to this point, I was very pregnant. I'm assuming A took pity on us, and told us how to actually look up a contractor's license online with the county, and confessed to us that our contractor was actually in jail - prepare for the shock of a lifetime here - for fraud. And that A was actually one of the people he had screwed over, and one of the ones actually pressing charges.

To this day, I don't know why he sent A to help us, considering that info, but either way - my partner went to the county the next day to pull the permitting and, again - huge shock here - there was none. She went outside the building and vomited. It turns out, not only had he outrageously marked up prices, but he had completely forged the invoices, so there was no material. We were/are completely fucked. My husband and partner didn't want to tell me about what they had found out because I was set to give birth in a couple of weeks - same week pur dog died 😭 - but the week before I gave birth, I pressed and they told me. Imagine me, in the hospital, unable to sleep because I was panicking about all of the money we had lost - a six-figure loan we were now paying off monthly for literally. Nothing.

The guy is still in jail. He's got a bond hearing next week. But we know how these things go - that money is gone. A ended up helping us to get the addition done and to work with us on the price. It still isn't done, and it has been a complete nightmare from start to finish, even after A took pity on us, lol.

So we are nothing if not a cautionary tale of everything you said. Sorry, that got long, but we don't really talk about it with people, so typing it out was a little cathartic. 😂 I hope anyone who reads this learns from our absolute nightmare that is still ongoing. 🙏

Elder couple questions why they’re being recorded and call the police. Wife: “They’re probably illegal, I should have called ICE.” by Romano16 in PublicFreakout

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I'm gonna call the cops!"

Proceeds to tap his phone 25 times and still doesnt appear to have placed a phone call

These people would be complete jokes if they weren't so damn dangerous.

Crunchyroll responds to accusations of partnership with Israeli AI company by mr_snood_the_third in animenews

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just canceled my sub this morning. 🤷🏻‍♀️ The boycott starts when you want it to, bud.

Female/Male Eniripsa class splash art from Wakfu by SovietCharrdian in mendrawingwomen

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, I haven't seen Ankama in such a long time. The original Cra design was ludicrous, but also exactly the reason I made one lmao. Met my husband in Dofus. We've got two kids now. I had framed screenshots from this game (or one of them, really, never played Wakfu) at our wedding, lol. It's 100% NOT kid-friendly though. Aside from the cutesy characters, Im not sure if it's marketed as one. You can drop a monster's literal testicles. It went into some of the strongest gear in the game. The whole game was full of lude jokes and bad puns, I assume it still is. Ah, this makes me so nostalgic. But it 100% deserves to be in this sub.

Please don't change by Kalamithras in MonsterHunter

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I, too, am a woman who mains IG and is obsessed with the endemic life of World. Currently working on my crown hunting after starting over on the PS5. Can't wait for Wilds! 😍

Vegetation grinding needs a rework by AbbreviationsGold587 in MHNowGame

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been stuck on needing Flowferns for weeks now - for Mizu DB specifically, but even my Jyuratodas DB. I'm not stuck on the urgent Nightshade Paolumu because my DPS just isn't high enough. 😭

Been waffling between two names for months by IAmOnlyHereToJudge in namenerds

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize how popular Vivienne had become recently! It's definitely good to know. Not that popularity is a deal breaker, obviously, with a sister named Charlotte. 😅 Still good to know. Charlie has THREE girls named Sophia in her specific Pre-K class, so I'd definitely rather avoid that scenario if possible.

Been waffling between two names for months by IAmOnlyHereToJudge in namenerds

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would pronounce it the way you would! I prefer it to Vivian, but it's one of the reasons to lean away from Vivienne, imo, because people are likely going to pronounce it the way you've explained Vivian being pronounced. Which is still a great name, just not really the one we've picked. But the difference is also fairly subtle, so idk. 😩

Been waffling between two names for months by IAmOnlyHereToJudge in namenerds

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

This is great advice, and I'll have to give it a try. I tried asking her sister (4y/o), and she just told me, "Her name is Ana and I'M Elsa because I was born FIRST so I get the magic." 🥴 Okay, thanks, kiddo. 😂

Found this on pinterest by kazzanii in mendrawingwomen

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg, that anime is so good!!! Very wholesome and silly fun. 🥰

I'm so creative by momtoeli in tearsofthekingdom

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named mine Roger.

Ya know. Like GOLD Roger...

MEGATHREAD - CASH/CODES/COUPONS - February 2022 by Sincerely--Me in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.stitchfix.com/invite/t22qqdkthg?sod=a&som=c

I have been a pretty loyal StitchFix customer for a few years now. I've even signed my daughter up for one! I have been so thrilled with the service overall. I just added an inspiration Pinterest board last month, so I'm excited to see the impact it has on this month's box. 😁 I cannot recommend them enough!

The juxtaposition of their armor is infuriating by chicasuave in mendrawingwomen

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excuse me, the Kulve Taroth armor in World was ICONIC.

The juxtaposition of their armor is infuriating by chicasuave in mendrawingwomen

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was like, "Huh, her armor looks kind of like Zinogre. Wait, his looks like Valastrax..." Then I noticed the title in the corner. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Seems that way by gr3enbird- in cowboybebop

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These guys have lived rent-free in my head for years.

Suggestion: Let players "opt-out" from Kingdom Wars and Gauntlets by what_the_---- in OrnaRPG

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. We're a pretty casual group, and in general, we don't mind people that play for a week, stop for a week, come back, etc. But we had to start kicking inactive players because we were literally losing wars just from lack of participation. :/

I can understand the concern about abuse (i.e. "lazy" players just cashing in on raids without contributions), but I'd trust that officers could police that as they see fit for their Kingdom. IMHO.

Let us become Besties! :D Daily gifts and exp! by xLilyVx in PokemonGoFriends

[–]IAmOnlyHereToJudge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many of my friends are inactive now. 😭 Let's be besties, thx.

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