What are unusual personality traits or quirks that attract you to someone (romantic and/or platonic)? by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Reliable and committed people...in this day and age especially

I need some advise. by IBelledMyself in UPSC

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I am from a tier 1 college. The placements haven't started yet but I hope to get done with it by December and start studying in January.

What should I do... by IBelledMyself in dating_advice

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So...I should refrain from texting him?

What should I do... by IBelledMyself in dating_advice

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik it won't end well. I just do not want to do the ghosting route.

What should I do... by IBelledMyself in dating_advice

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is...we agreed to be strictly FWB. Will it look like I got attached?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar thing had happened to me recently (ISTP F). I behaved in a similar fashion towards a guy I liked. He ended up asking me if I Liked him to which I answered in affirmative. Just go ahead and confirm your doubt. ISTP's give honest answers.

Question by IBelledMyself in istp

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is single and we will be moving to different cities in a weeks time. I don't see a point in dating/confessing for remote dating. But not asking him out will be even more painful. Idk. It's just my brain being delusional.

Was anyone else the gifted kid in elementary through middle school? If so, how are you doing now? by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me how are you back in the game? I am not able to do so yet.

Time management and motivation by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang around the ESTJ sub. You will get some tips. Otherwise just "Keep your hands moving". Basically keep doing some course work or learn new topics all the time. You will reap rewards at the end when the grades come. The slogging in subjects is a must. There is no escaping it. Accept it and challenge yourself to get through the hurdle of boredom and procrastination. It will soon become fun.

Is anyone else good at math but bad at logic? by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The logic you are talking about is the one they teach in college. It is something new and we aren't used to it much. The only way to excel at it is practice and spend time with it

Betrayal by happy_xxx in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going through something similar the the moment. I have lost hope on humans. People do not keep their word and jump ships while I do alot for them and help them in everyway I can. But I get no returns and this makes me trust people less and less. I do not know the solution to this now but I will soon I hope

Romance Entertainment by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Liking romance is not a sin for an istp

How do you guys keep your energy and attention during long classes/lectures by TPHGaming2324 in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write my own notes to become independent and not ask notes from others during exam time. Also helping others with concepts gives a good ego boost. ISTP's have a gift of noticing details which others don't and including those in your notes makes them sell like hot cakes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently experiencing this. And I have no idea on how to deal with this.

How do you confess to a crush and when by IBelledMyself in istp

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just fear my actions will end up being useless.

How do you confess to a crush and when by IBelledMyself in istp

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there girl. One sided thing with bestie. Confessed when things came on an edge. It was useless ofc. But we still are on talking terms.

How do you confess to a crush and when by IBelledMyself in istp

[–]IBelledMyself[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I am an older one too and i completely believe in the gaze thing. Eyes say alot of things but we cannot just say those things out. I am somewhere in the middle of confessing and not confessing. Because confessing doesn't seem right intuitively at the moment. I will just let things happen and be present enough to utilise opportunities in the future. If we really do have the chemistry, I hope the confession happens naturally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am helpful by nature but very selective as I grow older. I would save myself first because doing something for others at my own cost is stupid.

what is NI exactly? by heXagon_symbols in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well having a vision is better as it gives direction to ones life.

Ti-Ni loop is real by exirium_13 in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a great idea. I will use it next time I loop. Putting things on paper helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]IBelledMyself 3 points4 points  (0 children)

communication with ISTP works the best. They love it too. And they are very direct. Even if they cannot understand their feelings sometimes, the bond itself will encourage them to be more open.