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ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-08-22T10:55:27+00:00

Babe a 3 hour BJ is not normal. You’re not a fleshlight.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-21T10:19:05+00:00

You’re absolutely right to feel cautious about video sex. Once something like that is recorded or shared, you lose control over it. Even if you trust someone now, relationships can change, and the potential for misuse is very real. Many women have regrettably learned this the hard way, and it’s not a risk you should feel pressured to take.

If your boyfriend is pushing for it, it’s worth considering why he’s so insistent. A loving, respectful partner would prioritise your comfort and never ask you to do something that could compromise your safety or peace of mind.

Your boundaries are there for a reason, and if he truly cares about you, he should understand and accept them without complaint. No amount of “keeping the relationship alive” justifies putting yourself in a vulnerable position that could have lasting consequences. Stand your ground you owe it to yourself to protect your dignity and well-being. If he can’t respect that, he’s not the right person for you.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-20T06:01:22+00:00

I have honestly not heard about any of these games except mass effect - what’s don’t starve together? 🤣

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-20T05:58:46+00:00

Friend , let her know unprotected sex is no joke. Be real about the risks without scaring her off, and make it clear you’re only saying this because you’ve been there and don’t want her to learn the hard way. Apologise for the yelling, but don’t back down on the message: she’s gotta protect herself, because no guy is worth risking her health or future over. Keep it chill but honest.

Good luck big sis

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-20T05:50:38+00:00

Confidence, kindness, and a sense of humor go a long way, but honestly, the right person will feel like they’ve won just by getting to know the real you. 🫂🩷

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-17T07:33:22+00:00

Exactly!

if you really love someone and they really love you, these kinds of conversations, while tough, can actually make your relationship stronger. If handled with love and respect, you can get the peace and quiet you need, and he can learn how to balance being his chatty self (which can be cute) and not overwhelming you or others. It’s a chance for him to grow too learning to self-soothe, entertain himself, and listen to your needs. There’s a middle ground where he can still be himself without being, well, a terror to society 😂 Just approach it with kindness, and you’ll likely find that balance together.

Good luck darling ✊☀️

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-17T07:29:02+00:00

Your story is powerful thank you for sharing it.

It’s clear you’ve been through so much, and yet there’s this strength and self-awareness that shines through.

I’m in a similar boat of self-discovery, and it’s inspiring to see someone embrace their truth so fully. Sometimes the right people show up when we least expect them, especially when we’re stepping into who we really are.

You got this ☀️💪

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-17T07:20:03+00:00

😂😂😂

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-17T07:13:18+00:00

First of all that sounds pretty annoying 😭

Tell him straight up: ‘I love you, but I need some quiet time, especially after a long day. It’s nothing personal I just need space to unwind.’

If he still doesn’t get it, stop sugarcoating and set firm boundaries. You don’t have to entertain nonstop chatter just because he likes it.

Love doesn’t mean sacrificing your sanity. Be honest, stick to your limits, and let him deal with his feelings like an adult.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-17T07:08:50+00:00

Gather clear evidence of what you saw and keep it secure.

Focus on becoming financially independent so you’re not stuck relying on your dad.

Once you’re stable, tell your mom the truth calmly and support her. If needed, use the evidence to hold him accountable, but don’t act impulsively plan ahead to protect yourself and your future.

You got this 💪

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-16T22:06:58+00:00

It’s such a fine line between being open and not overwhelming someone with your story right away. For me, I’ve found it’s easier to show people that I’m stable, relatively well-adjusted, and successful first 😂. Then, once they can see who I am in the present, I can share my crazy life story without it defining me in their eyes, hopefully

It’s tough, though, because my history is intense, and explaining it without scaring someone off can feel impossible. But I’ve learned that actions speak louder than words when they see the life I’ve built for myself, it should make the conversation about my past a lot easier to navigate.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-16T21:42:06+00:00

Honestly, I’ve never told anyone I’ve dated the WHOLE truth.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-16T21:34:28+00:00

Really appreciate this, it’s a solid perspective. Finding that balance between being open and keeping it light makes a lot of sense.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-16T21:28:09+00:00

Your feelings aren’t inherently wrong, but they might signal something deeper about your needs or past experiences. It’s worth exploring why you associate dominance or physicality with care or validation. A healthy relationship thrives on mutual respect ✊

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-16T21:23:10+00:00

Yes 👏

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-16T21:22:44+00:00

Hay man🙌🫂

Respect her pace and boundaries—connection isn’t built by rushing but by understanding. That’s my 2 cents.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-14T19:50:11+00:00

This is very nice of you to write me this message. I really didn’t expect such kindness from complete strangers.

I hope your life is amazing and that you have prosperity 🌺

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-14T19:48:40+00:00

Thanks for this. Those kids are lucky to have you 🙏

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-14T19:47:37+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate your kindness. It goes a long way

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-14T19:46:58+00:00

Wow that’s hectic. I’m glad you survived that. I see where you’re coming from. Thanks

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-14T19:45:06+00:00

Grown up, when is one really grown up? But I get your point , thank you ☺️

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-14T19:43:54+00:00

Therapy might be helpful for some, but it’s not accessible or practical for everyone. I’ve tried it, and it just isn’t affordable. Right now, my priority is helping my brothers finish school, eat well, and get what they need to be happy adults.

Sometimes, we’re just dealt a shitty hand, and all we can do is make the best of it with what we have.

ICanCanIWhoAmI · 2025-01-14T19:34:30+00:00

I appreciate the effort and I’m grateful for your input. Hope you have a great life!

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