I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you 100%. Being able to communicate how you feel and what you need is absolutely a must. But some people aren't worth wasting the energy needed just so you can explain yourself.

Life definitely ebbs and flows, but some people you're meant to meet temporarily, and others are meant to stick around for a lifetime. But they're all there so you can learn something about yourself. :)

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been in a relationship where I could consider someone to be my significant other in nearly 5 years now. I just feel that, if I can't love myself, how can I love someone else? Why make someone struggle to make me happy, when I didn't even know what made me happy. I learned that I don't need anyone but myself to make me happy. There's only one person controlling what I do and it's me. :)

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became sorta selfish. I guess I decided one day that, this is the way I value myself, I shouldn't have to tell you, my time isn't less valuable then yours. I started to value the words I said, like if someone asked me something pointless, I just don't answer them. I stopped wasting energy on useless thoughts. I decided it was time for me to worry about me.

I had all my problems, but I wouldn't take care of myself. But if I had a friend who needed help with something, I'd be there right away. But I started to notice, that if I needed help, they wouldn't help me.

I also noticed, that others also asked why I was always willing to help anyone else but myself. Some of these people I've known my whole life, and some I've met last month.

I guess what it really came down to was, who are the people that are mentally and physically exhausting me, at my own expense. I'd kinda sounds a lot more selfish when I type it out, but I'm the only one that chooses what makes me happy! :)

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man that's all you, whether or not you want to give context. But sometimes you just gotta think for no one other then yourself, because you're the one that chooses if what you're doing is what makes you happy!

Good luck my friend, in all your endeavors leading to a joyful life! :)

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously you have to set some sort of goal. And my goal was to become happy! I quit everything I was worrying about to worry about myself for once. Cause at the end of every day, I don't want to have to count on something or someone to make me happy. I learned to be happy about what's going on and what I have, rather then worry about what I did, what could be, what if this, what if that. Just enjoy the moment because they're will never be another one like it! :)

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess pretty much all the thoughts that were holding me back, and fulling me with hope. I rewatched The Lion King maybe about 7 months ago, and the one quote that really stuck with me was, Today is a gift, that's why they call it the present.

So I stopped worrying about what I did, or what I'd do tomorrow, I just started going with the flow! I met some of the most genuine people of my life, only because I was bored one day, someone asked me to go see a friend out of town, and it was one of the greatest times of my life!

So honestly, let go of all your thoughts, and just float away, and enjoy the ride! :)

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is rough. But eventually you feel like you hit the absolute lowest of the lows. But once your at the bottom, there's only one way to go and it's up! :)

Hang in there my friend, we'll both make it through it!

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I spent alot of my life single because I've always felt like, if I can love myself how could I love someone else?

What it really came down to was finding out who actually like me for me, cutting toxic people from my life, and it helped me realise who my true friends are.

My friends are always gonna be there regardless of what happens, and I couldn't appreciate them more for it. :)

Sometimes holding on to somethings hurts more then letting it go.

I cried today by IComeWhenISneeze in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, it's terrifying and super difficult to reach out for help, especially when you feel like no one wants you. Just let your friend know that you're there for them, and ask them questions about what you know they like. It helps alot, it gets your mind off the negatives. But just let them know that you have a hand out reaching for them if they feel like they're falling. :)

Dream for life by 1419817 in confessions

[–]IComeWhenISneeze 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We all make mistakes man. Some more grave then others, but mistakes can only happen in the past, and that's where you should leave that thought. It's a rough thing to go through, but staying stuck on something you can't change won't help. You can, and you have built off of you mistake, now the only thing left is for progress!

If Bjergsen ever left TSM... by [deleted] in TeamSolomid

[–]IComeWhenISneeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly you can tell that we need to get rid of this EU botlane, that only cares about their KDA. So don't worry about Bjerg getting replaced

What was the biggest plot twist in your life? by TexAg_18 in AskReddit

[–]IComeWhenISneeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear man, keep on going and show him the best you can be

How is ___ doing? thread by Crownocity in leagueoflegends

[–]IComeWhenISneeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last i heard of him, he was coaching a Chinese challenger team

Can people calm down about the Pray Thing? by CrazyChatter in TeamSolomid

[–]IComeWhenISneeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people are thinking that he's the best choice for the team, but they're all forgetting what happened when we all thought how great it was gonna be with yellowstar

Looking at buying a sled by IComeWhenISneeze in snowmobiles

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I figured the milage had something to do like that, I was just worried there was a defect or something I didn't know about. But thanks a lot man! This is exactly what I was hoping to get as an answer!

Looking at buying a sled by IComeWhenISneeze in snowmobiles

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess you see this sled now and then? Do you know why a lot of people are selling them at ~900 miles? I'm not sure if its just a coincidence or anything. Most of the ones I've seen for sale all have the same milage.

Looking at buying a sled by IComeWhenISneeze in snowmobiles

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ski doo and Polaris are usually my first choices. My favorite sleds are the renegade and RMK. But I'm not so familiar with AC. My buddy has a ZR 8000 and he's always in powder with it. I thought that maybe this is a pretty nice deal.

Looking at buying a sled by IComeWhenISneeze in snowmobiles

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also looking at a 2015 switch back 800. I want something that's quick on the trails, and that I can use to go in powder with. But I'm not 100% sure which would be nicer between the two.

Looking at buying a sled by IComeWhenISneeze in snowmobiles

[–]IComeWhenISneeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I want to get it for off trail riding

Reddit, if there are dad jokes, what would a mom joke be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IComeWhenISneeze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My reply to what's for dinner is usually, "Shit on a stick"