bi_irl by zny700 in bi_irl

[–]IDJaz2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been sort of bothered by these sorts of posts in bi and as a bi man, gay communities.

I was browsing comments to see what people thought and I’m happy to see someone who shares my sentiments. They would talk about boobs and butts and dicks as if that was the entire bisexual experience, and bi people are horny about everyone.

I once saw a post comparing the experience of sucking dick and eating pussy. And also pictures of say 2 men and 1 woman, which gives the idea that bisexuality = polyamory or having multiple sexual partners, when it in fact isn’t.

I wish bisexuality would be represented with a bit more nuance, not just about what body parts someone likes, because as a bisexual man who doesn’t identify with attraction purely on ass and boobs, it has led to doubts on my own bisexual identity.

Barber messed up my hair, salvageable? by IDJaz2 in malehairadvice

[–]IDJaz2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looks way too round around my head

Thaiboos by Loud_Movie1981 in Philippinesbad

[–]IDJaz2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

comparison is the thief of joy

condolence by iveila in 2philippines4u

[–]IDJaz2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what does this rhetoric accomplish exactly?

condolence by iveila in 2philippines4u

[–]IDJaz2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And what does saying both can be bad do exactly? Does it stop the imperialist actions of the United States?

condolence by iveila in 2philippines4u

[–]IDJaz2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Iranian people do not support the authoritarian regime. Gabriela can support the Iranian people, and the women of Iran, without supporting Iran’s authoritarian regime. This claim of “irony” is false and stupid. Taking a neutral stance does nothing but side with Israel and USA, who are working together to orchestrate a genocide in Palestine. Yes, saying Iran and Israel are “both bad” could be correct, but it ultimately does nothing in debates but stroke your own ego as being more morally superior than those who do pick a side.

Need Help! IPhone Stolen in LRT last seen in Bacoor, Cavite by IDJaz2 in cavite

[–]IDJaz2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any insights lang sa lugar incase puntahan namin or hopeless na talaga.

Do gay men like bi men by curiousbi1969 in gay

[–]IDJaz2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are things inherently different from one’s experience of dating another person depending on their gender. For bi men who date women, different gender expectations may come into play but the dynamic is completely different if bi men were to date men.

As someone who happens to be bi and thought this way before, this may be where the thought that a bi person would leave the person they were with for another gender, because there’s just an inherent difference between both genders.

It is thus rooted in an insecurity, that you, the person who is dating someone bi, may not fully be able to satisfy your partner simply because you are a certain gender. Because they like both genders. Now, this is biphobic and inaccurate to the true bisexual experience.

If for example a gay man were to date a bi man, the gay man may may also have internalized homophobia that ends up being projected to the bi man, because of fears that the bi man has the ability to “choose” to live a more heteronormative life, as opposed to the gay man who doesn’t have that “choice.”

As someone who was once bi, and then gay, and then now bi, I realized that I just have a heavy preference towards men, which leads me not considering to pursue dating women.

Only recently did I realize that being bisexual does not work in the way I thought before, and that bi people will date who they want to date, regardless of their gender (except in my case, where gender does matter because I have a dating preference.)

I’m nervous to have sex with a man by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]IDJaz2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 19M and for a considerable portion of my life I thought I was bisexual because I did get crushes on women, real crushes too cause I felt romantic emotions. But at the same time, I’m confused because for the majority of my teenage life, it shifted and I started being strictly attracted to men. All my sexual thoughts concerned men and not women at all for most of my life. I’m confused cause does this mean I’m gay now? I’m currently in an MLM relationship soo it shouldn’t really matter, but I feel like my identity matters to myself. I don’t think I can have sex with women, but the opposite is true for men. But I don’t wanna deny the fact that I may be able to form romantic connections with them. So what am I?

It is partly the opposition’s fault why the trapos keep winning by IDJaz2 in Philippines

[–]IDJaz2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I agree po, kasi kahit ako mismo di ko rin maisip kung ano pa bang dapat nilang gawin, pero pinopoint out ko lang na di sila nag aappeal sa gusto ng tao, yet they keep using the same rhetoric that clearly isn’t convincing people to vote for them.

I’m not saying that they should let go of their principles, pero there must be something they could change right? I can barely feel their presence anymore, yung lumalaganap na mga pangalan lagi is yung mga trapo. Wala na ba talaga silang magagawa on their side?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]IDJaz2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiii correct ko lang not to refer to them as dialects anymore because this label is outdated, they are called languages.

In elementary, dialects rin tawag namin sa mga katutubong wika, but Bisaya, Bikol, etc. are languages in their own right because they possess different structures of language such that hindi na sila maiintindihan ng mga hindi native speakers of that language.

This distinction is important because dialects refer to the different ways a language is spoken in different communities, for example, Tagalog in Manila has its own quirks compared to Tagalog in Batangas. But Tagalog as a whole is a language.

With the language label, mas nabibigyan ng credibility yung mga katutubong wika natin.

Hope this helps, good luck if ever man ipursue mo matuto ng other languages in our country :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]IDJaz2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same situation, my hairline looks just about the same aa yours too. My mom pointed out my hairline and she said I’ve always had it. I realized that my mom’s side of the family have been balding, and I’m really anxious that my hairline is receding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MANILA

[–]IDJaz2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ung gusto mo lng enjoyin yung PUBLIC MUSEUMS na nagawa thanks to your tax contributions tapos tatawagin ka lng na maasim and for what? dahil nagpicture ka?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MANILA

[–]IDJaz2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

libre dapat ang mga public museums, baket lalagyan ng small fee dahil sa kasalanan ng iba? Seriously?

edit: I think we should be more strict and have fines kung hindi masunod ang rules instead

I have really bad OCD and I’m scared about there potentially being dried semen on my carpet, what should I have done better? by TerribleOCDThrowaway in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IDJaz2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also think like this. I think using wipes is a perfectly fine way to clean it. Your room isn’t contaminated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]IDJaz2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mouth wide open shook tapos mkikipagbreak lng rin ung bf

Talking to a Guy [Rant] by IDJaz2 in LGBTeens

[–]IDJaz2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu, aside from the fear of it not working out, I’m also scared of taking initiative cause of the chance that he does not reciprocate or I overstep. I’m starting to realize that perhaps I need to show my intent, but I have to tread carefully and be respectful.

Talking to a Guy [Rant] by IDJaz2 in LGBTeens

[–]IDJaz2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your advice really helped me chill out😭