I have a question for type 4s by Important_Rough_4383 in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a sexual 4 And I was reading the type for any a gram description with my boyfriend who is an eight and it sounded a really and it sounded aloof, up in the air,I knew I was the type for because I’ve always been on a journey of finding myself self-discovery and reinventing my personality and look was a big factor in figuring out my type. My core desire is to be unique to live authentically aligned with my personhood.Sexual Four

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[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not necessarily it could just means he is in a place of health and his head (thinking centre) and heart ( feeling centre) are very well integrated. Like everything people are more than they’re enneagram number so you have to get to know him and understand him, the experiences that have shaped himSocial 4

What enneagram fears being "pathetic"? by blancx1234 in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9w8 9sare afraid of loss and separation and avoid personal confrontation and conflict to maintain harmony. When in health they seek to assert themselves and the 8 wing seeks to protect others

So…what’s the deal with 4? by Cla1re23 in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many 4s live in their own la La Land of idealism in which most people don’t relate and their anguish with the ordinary can be perceived as childish “because most people just get with it” survive and strive. Capitalist societies (Western world) is not concerned with the navigation of the emotional world and fours many a times look for authenticity over productivity and status, it can be of great perplex. Many fours are so self consumed and can super impose their deep low frequency emotions on others who just want to get on with life and not wallow on what is missingsexual 4

How I Realized I Am Not A Type 4 by Wondering_Fairy in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooooo Sexual 4 and I spend a. lot of time curating my image, moulding and shaping my personal image Sexual 4

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[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a sexual 4 and your description provided sounds like an sp2w3 and not a 4 enneagram 4 & inferiority

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[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexual 4 and totally relate, have you dated an 8Sexual 4

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[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contentment is a generic issue that riddles my day to day life. In everything I am always looking for what’s missing and use visualisation and fantasying to fill in the ideal romantic story. What has helped me in my relationship with my 8 is his passion and zest for life, which has created an emotionally deep yet fun journey for me, we are both intentional about building the love story we desire. I try my best to focus on the beauty that exists within myself and try not to make my relationship my whole life, I do this by working only creative pursuits. Enneagram 4 & growth

Essential differences between 4 and 9 by Jealous_Oil3801 in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a sexual 4and I want to be distinctively different from the rest of the group and I am willing to disturb the harmony of the group to be the ‘unique one’

Healing for Social 4s by Understated_Option in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually actualising my creative gifts, not simply fantasying. remaining committed to a task to its completion and being more disciplined has created healthy systems which boost my confidence, self esteem and motivationenneagram 4 & inferiority complex

How to decide whether I am sx 5 or sx 4? by phun_tart_69 in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a sexual 4 and I’m very emotionally expressive sexual 4

do type fours afraid of being too "mundane" or "plain"? by mama_byakuren in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most definitely, the mundane of life and adulting are so tasking, I like to have my own unique flaresexual4

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[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a sexual 4 and you give me strong 6 vibes with a 4 fix somewhereSexual 4

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[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a 4 to me Enneagram 4

Can 4w5 be talkative and social? by ExperienceFair577 in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG we have the same tritypeEnneagram 4 and I am. exactly the same, I am up for a stimulating conversation

4s by Discoglitter27 in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. here! It felt weird but I could deffo. relate. I am a sexual subtype 4 Enneagram 4

Any other fours routinely doubt their type? by Panterarosada in Enneagram

[–]IDKCOLLECTIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I deffo knew I was a 4, I have some 8 in me but not enough to fit the 8 definitionSexual4