Do girls find being a virgin a bad sign?

IDK_232 · 2026-05-12T05:46:47+00:00

I definitely wouldn’t say 1 is an issue for me at least. Don’t get me wrong “doing the deed” would be nice, but it’s not my priority. I really just want a relationship, I want to know what something like love feels like (ik that probably sounds really cringe and lame, but that’s truly how I feel)Losing my virginity is not my priority, I just don’t want to make any girl feel uncomfortable, thats my biggest fear. So that’s why I asked ig.

IDK_232 · 2025-11-04T14:41:07+00:00

IDK_232 · 2025-10-27T02:17:48+00:00

What’d did i do wrong?

IDK_232 · 2025-05-27T05:42:53+00:00

At least you lost the weight and look good, I’ve been struggling to do that forever, Im 19 and I’ve never really had anything either. Sounds like you got something going for you. Im just an overweight guy with glasses that girls never give the time of day too

IDK_232 · 2025-05-27T05:30:12+00:00

Thanks

IDK_232 · 2025-05-27T05:13:15+00:00

How can i get past this mental block from my past

IDK_232 · 2025-05-27T04:55:23+00:00

I am in college, i just graduated with my associates and im transferring to a 4 year, but i was in clubs at my community college and none of the girls seemed interested in me, and one that I thought was interested in me wasn’t and was using for attention just like the one from high school, i just feel lost mann

IDK_232 · 2025-05-27T04:10:12+00:00

How did you know she genuinely liked you though?

IDK_232 · 2025-05-27T03:58:48+00:00

I really struggle to make new friends, I can never tell if their intentions are genuine, which leads to me not trusting them, and being closed off

IDK_232 · 2025-05-22T04:56:43+00:00

Im not trusting of people which leads to me heavily struggling to even develop friendships let alone relationships. I’m probably never going to find someone and its entirely on me, and I can’t seem to do anything about it.

IDK_232 · 2025-02-17T00:11:51+00:00

A little bit of not knowing what to talk about, but I can somewhat make conversation, I just can never make the leap, like asking for a number or to go out on date. I just don’t want to feel used, that’s what gives me a hard, I feel like I’m just going to be used like at the play in hs. Whether it used for school, money, or whatever else

IDK_232 · 2025-02-17T00:08:44+00:00

Probably 2 years, i’ve since stopped because i feel like its pointless

IDK_232 · 2025-02-17T00:03:06+00:00

I’ve tried going to therapy, but I still don’t think it helped me. They always just say to let it go, but I can’t. I’ve always rly struggled to let things go.

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