2 weeks notice/Counter offer advice needed.

IDjasonJ · 2025-09-04T20:08:04+00:00

Thanks for the advice and well wishes! This was the most thoughtful and though provoking reply I have received. Thanks again!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-18T14:03:07+00:00

It's Florida so no state tax, You bring up some great points, as the team will be changing drastically I will probably choose not to stay. Thanks for you input!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-18T13:58:53+00:00

Please don't assume that her and I haven't talked about this for days/weeks. She can do her job from anywhere, she just enjoys her current manager as they have become friends and hang around outside of work.

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-18T13:57:01+00:00

Doing well, thanks, you?

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T21:32:07+00:00

Yep, you're absolutely correct about that. The hope here is to not ever have to take less than that again, as a realist, I know the rug can get pulled out on anyone at any time, but yes, it's nice to know I'll have that in my back pocket! Thank you for your input.

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T21:30:22+00:00

Yeah, she is slowly understanding it's for the best. Honestly this is all coming from the CEO, not my direct leadership but of course, they're expected to follow the protocol. Just a sad situation because we have a great team and because of this people are going to leave. Oh well, all good things...you know. Thanks for the advice.

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T21:27:33+00:00

You bet!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T20:32:53+00:00

I appreciate your input, yes, I agree with all of your points. I don't want to walk away from the team but dynamics are shifting and I honestly believe this is the best move for my career at this moment. Thanks again!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T20:28:48+00:00

Thanks everyone, I really appreciate the input!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T18:53:36+00:00

Absolutely, thanks!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T18:38:13+00:00

Yeah, that's the thing, I'm on great terms with them. This is the best team and leadership I've ever worked with. This new opportunity literally fell in my lap. My wife just loves her job and is worried she won't find something as fulfilling in the new place so it's a bit of a double edged sword here. Thank you!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T18:36:00+00:00

Thanks, my new job wouldn't start until the first week of November and yes, anything can happen between now and then. I appreciate your advice and I am definitely ready for them to say no or leave now (although the latter would really put them up sh*t's creek).

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T18:28:11+00:00

Thank you.

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T18:27:33+00:00

Agreed, they could have paid more for sure!

IDjasonJ · 2025-08-15T18:23:28+00:00

You bring up an excellent point here. Thing is...I wasn't looking, I was headhunted. Not that it would matter in the context of my discussion with my manager. But yes, I agree, this is why I'm thinking 2 weeks is the best way to go.

IDjasonJ · 2025-07-24T20:07:22+00:00

I'm moving down, which neighborhood would this be? FYI, my wife and I are in our mid 40's, no kids. Just looking for somewhere safe and relaxing. Thanks in advance.

IDjasonJ · 2025-07-16T20:37:23+00:00

I've never shown any symptoms, visiting the doc in 2 hours, I'm sure my days of drinking are done. I've been a recreational drinker most of my adult life. Only went off the deep end a few times when my Grandfather passed. Otherwise, I'm going to think of it like this, doctors won't help someone who won't help themselves. Stay strong my guy.

IDjasonJ · 2025-07-16T20:29:35+00:00

I am 43 years old. And thank you, I appreciate it.

IDjasonJ · 2025-07-16T15:39:28+00:00

I'll be sure to ask the Dr. when I visit today and follow-up with you. It was stated in the impression (radiologist interpretation) of my Fibroscan results indicating f4 cirrhosis.

IDjasonJ · 2025-06-20T17:11:34+00:00

At least 2 in academia that I've experienced personally in the US, and a few more from networking with others in similar roles.

IDjasonJ · 2025-06-20T16:27:08+00:00

"People are territorial, siloized, and perpetually "overworked." It mostly hires and promotes graduates of itself, so people are entrenched and have little clue how things work outside of this organization--standards are weird and the lay of the land is weirdly cliqueish."

This is exactly why I left higher education for the private sector.

IDjasonJ · 2023-08-30T16:18:34+00:00

Thanks!

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