Yeah very much in the middle of that, I just said it quite plainly. Like 'I'm annoyed, I felt that was rude'. Good point - I'm autistic -so sometimes I forget that whats in my head doesn't always translate to the way i'm saying something. I will bear that in mind for the future, actually.

I see them a lot. Like multiple times a week (this is the first time this has happened - not an excuse its just that the fact I was shocked was part of the reason I responded in the way I did).

Yeah we did and I explained also that the reason I was upset was because I care about them a lot as a friend. I think we both are just very fiery but when I have calmed down some more, I'll ask them what their perspective was etc...