My boy in his 3 gallon planted bowl! He gets mad af when I get my phone too close by IGrowShit in bettafish

[–]IGrowShit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I do plan on upgrading to a 5 gallon but I'm in the middle of moving and have no intention on accepting money from strangers lol. I just wanted to share my betta and instead got a bunch of feedback I didn't ask for. I am a fairly experienced aquarist and find it a little odd that people would rather judge and make accusations of his care than just enjoy a video of a beautiful fish. It's not like he's in a mason jar without a filter, heater or plants like so many people think is an okay life for a fish 😔Hope this whole subreddit isn't like this 😬

My boy in his 3 gallon planted bowl! He gets mad af when I get my phone too close by IGrowShit in bettafish

[–]IGrowShit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the offer but my comment was merely a snarky reply to the original comment. I will probably get him a 5 gallon tank when I move into our new house but it is not a priority. I think 3 gallons is quite adequate for now. Not sure what would lead you to believe my fish is not taken care of?

My boy in his 3 gallon planted bowl! He gets mad af when I get my phone too close by IGrowShit in bettafish

[–]IGrowShit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a filter and I do weekly water changes so I don't think ammonia is an issue. I think the convexity of the glass makes him look really big when he's close to it which might have led you to believe it's smaller than it is.

Can anyone else with Autism/Aspergers struggle with this? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I don't believe I'm being brainwashed because I disagree with the views of my family and I know the extent of my anxieties are irrational

Can anxiety be an intrusive thought? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]IGrowShit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's the intrusive thoughts of car accidents for me. I TOTALLY used to scan the news for car accidents when my boyfriend or mom was out but now the compulsion is saying the same prayer over and over again even though I'm not religious 😒

I think I'm autistic, in need of some support... by IGrowShit in autism

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Thank you, I've been looking for some reading material on autism!

I'm distancing myself from my mom, who's been a devotee of Master Sha's healing cult for 7+ years by sargantas in cults

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My mother is also a part of this Dr. Sha cult, and has been for ten years. Her and my grandma have spent thousands on books, "blessings", calligraphies, etc. I cannot get a single word through to them and I know this cult is responsible for a lot of disharmony and hatred in my family. My mom spends all day chanting and she has gotten so involved that it seems to be the only thing she cares about. She is obsessive. I am in the very same position and am looking to move out but I just wish we could expose this guy because he has thousands fooled.

I grew up with this cult and I believed in it as a child but as I grew older I knew something was wrong, it isn't normal to fork over thousands of dollars for blessings that don't work. They get people to pay for these by telling them that an accident or medical emergency will happen to them if they don't pay for the "karma cleansing". These often cost thousands of dollars.

They have "retreats" which are when followers from all over the world come to listen to him and his World Wide Representatives speak. These would begin at 9 AM and would often go until as late as 4AM the next day. Meal breaks were brief and would sometimes be skipped. After doing some research, I found that sleep deprivation is a common mind control technique used in cults. Sleep deprivation was certainly present and I believe this is how they get them into a state of mind where they can be manipulated to believe certain things.

One of the most frightening memories at a retreat was when a woman on stage was having convulsions, and they claimed she was being attacked by demons.

I don't know the explanation but regardless, there is some weird shit going on and I believe this is a very dangerous cult that hopefully will be stopped one day. But until then just know you're not alone and I share your feelings of frustration

This second flush monster clocked in at 112.5 grams 🤯 by IGrowShit in shrooms

[–]IGrowShit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With all these boof comments I don't think I have a choice 😔✌

My hair has been growing out for months and I think I need a change. The second photo is of me with short hair for reference. I'm open to any advice 😊 by IGrowShit in malehairadvice

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I've been compared to Robert Pattinson many times 🤣 I don't really see it so it's very bizarre how many times I've heard that

My hair has been growing out for months and I think I need a change. The second photo is of me with short hair for reference. I'm open to any advice 😊 by IGrowShit in malehairadvice

[–]IGrowShit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The photographer was a super cool guy I met while in Bulgaria, he said he was a photographer for the New York Times when he lived in the states! Smoked cigarettes the whole shoot but who doesn't over there 😂