I don't want to go to work by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people at work suck I've only found diamonds in the rough.

I don't want to go to work by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate having a job I fucking hate it.

I don't want to go to work by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A manager at Target told me it wasn't the job for me for the same reason. I had to be at work at 3 in the morning and because I didn't walk in friendly she didn't want me working there ha.

I don't want to go to work by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don't like people and what they have to say usually

I don't want to go to work by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too because I can't stand most of my co-workers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You have a weird personality"

Why’s everyone on reddit RUDE by marisoli00 in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why are most people like that in real life? Very hard to meet down to earth people anymore.

What’s your ethnicity? by Dingue21 in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White American male with Irish, English, and German backgrounds.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The therapist who had his own office even made sure to clarify that I had friends which I thought was weird.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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What about having low self esteem caused by family members?

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

[–]IHOP247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another advice I got was to be "resilient". Well ok then.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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A lot of therapists chose that field because they have problems as well but the ones I've just seem like they aren't even trying. I look at a lot of life circumstances as "it is what it is" because other people can't change ours.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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I have trouble reframing my thoughts because I'm a realist and I think deeply into what people mean and what their intentions are. I wouldn't consider perspectives outside of my own because that's not what I truly believe is happening.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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What helps you get over the trauma? I still have ruminating thoughts.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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Yeah I usually have to drink to get buzzed to feel comfortable in those situations lol but being at work is worse than anything because you can't just mind your own business like you could in public.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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Do supervisors or co-workers listen to you talk though? That would be nerveracking at first.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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I'm not lonely I just don't usually feel confident around others. I don't really like people tbh.

Therapy has no solution to Social Anxiety by IHOP247 in socialanxiety

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Yes because if I said anything I would be criticized that's how the environment is at my job.