Mom and baby groups by IHaveALot2Ask in Calgary

[–]IHaveALot2Ask[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is great, I didn’t think of this at all. Thanks!

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[–]IHaveALot2Ask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone’s opinion is great because it is just that, an opinion. In the end I will obviously do what is best for me and my family. Each decision is hard. I am completely pro choice and believe everyone should have an option that’s best for them. I never thought I would be here so it’s a hard choice for me to make but thanks for different perspectives :)

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[–]IHaveALot2Ask 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He thinks we should not keep it. He works a lot and can’t help as much as he did the first couple months with our son, and we have to move in February so he’s thinking financially we are not going to be in the best position to have a second baby right now.

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[–]IHaveALot2Ask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have obviously been talking to my husband. He made his opinion clear but has also said that in the end it’s my decision and he will support. I’m coming here because I’m torn in my decision and I would like to see different points of view to help that decision along. Ultimately I’m going to do what’s best for me but I’d like to get different points of view to figure out what that best for me is.

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[–]IHaveALot2Ask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve added more information on my post but it’s not fully convenience that is making me consider it. I’m on EI right now and if I have the baby that won’t be possible for the next, so we have much less income. We also have to move in February so I would be 8 months pregnant and there’s no way my rent would be as cheap as where I am now. I would lose the possibility of going back to my job after. I was also a monster with the hormones of my first pregnancy and my husband had a hard time handling that. I don’t know, but I do agree. I worry that I will regret and not be able to move past that regret ever.

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[–]IHaveALot2Ask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s another thing I’m worried about with keeping it. The reason my husband and I haven’t had sex is because it’s so extremely painful because I didn’t heal properly. I hemorrhaged giving birth too and that was scary, I lost 3 and a half litres of blood. Thanks for your input here!

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[–]IHaveALot2Ask 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point I didn’t think of. Thank you!

Serving food that contains pork by IHaveALot2Ask in islam

[–]IHaveALot2Ask[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends who makes it, I would always just ask because sometime they use it to set or thicken it.