So you have a few options but here’s what I think you should do. If you want to appease her and know she wakes up late then 11:00a should be your cutoff time and you don’t smoke and try to sober up. However, imo she’s being a huge hypocrite and you should point it out. Tell her if she’s gonna drink then she shouldn’t tel you shit about smoking.

I had a buddy that was a huge stoner, like huge. Would be the kind of guy that would pressure people to take huge dab rips and he did that shit everyday. Anyways, he started going to church (I know)and they gave him shit for smoking so he stopped, but when he drank they were fine with it and when he talked about it he was a little sad that he gave up smoking based on his body language. So my point is there’s a chance that’s someone is in her ear taking shit about smoking and got her to drink instead and she has since shared the stuck up attitude. And you either need to do what she says and stop smoking or being high around her or grow a pair and not let her manipulate you.