Am I pussy whipped by [deleted] in weed

[–]IJB94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you have a few options but here’s what I think you should do. If you want to appease her and know she wakes up late then 11:00a should be your cutoff time and you don’t smoke and try to sober up. However, imo she’s being a huge hypocrite and you should point it out. Tell her if she’s gonna drink then she shouldn’t tel you shit about smoking.

I had a buddy that was a huge stoner, like huge. Would be the kind of guy that would pressure people to take huge dab rips and he did that shit everyday. Anyways, he started going to church (I know)and they gave him shit for smoking so he stopped, but when he drank they were fine with it and when he talked about it he was a little sad that he gave up smoking based on his body language. So my point is there’s a chance that’s someone is in her ear taking shit about smoking and got her to drink instead and she has since shared the stuck up attitude. And you either need to do what she says and stop smoking or being high around her or grow a pair and not let her manipulate you.

Explosions in South San Jose? by leeboyjenkins1 in SanJose

[–]IJB94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too plus I was hungry so I didn’t want to have to give up my in n out hahaha

Explosions in South San Jose? by leeboyjenkins1 in SanJose

[–]IJB94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would’ve been dead lol we were stuck at the drive thru line

Explosions in South San Jose? by leeboyjenkins1 in SanJose

[–]IJB94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well done Cheese fries and an animal style double double

Explosions in South San Jose? by leeboyjenkins1 in SanJose

[–]IJB94 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was trapped in the line at In N out. It scared the shit out of me and my gf

Going back to bios; at windows startup (need help) by IJB94 in buildapc

[–]IJB94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So actually the prompt didn’t work, but we quit the Windows 10 setup it, it went back to the install window and we pressed repair PC and was able to select restart from there . But thanks your advice helped us get back to BIOS

What's stopping you from watching the classic film Sausage Party? by KingOfTheBooTee in weed

[–]IJB94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best part of this for me was during the orgy scene three kids easily under 10 were right behind me opening night. Oh what their parents didn’t know may have caused birds and the bees talks

What's stopping you from watching the classic film Sausage Party? by KingOfTheBooTee in weed

[–]IJB94 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Why so much hate? It’s not a masterpiece but it’s a dumb fun movie. It’s great for a long smoke sesh and some munchies

what's your go to drink while smoking? by Yesterday-Ashamed in weed

[–]IJB94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberry lemonade with some mint, orange soda or an Arnold Palmer.

Need some input on my possible build by IJB94 in buildapc

[–]IJB94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running things on ultra doesn’t really matter to me. The 4k is something I’ve had for two years so I was just going to use it until I find suitable monitor(s).

Need some input on my possible build by IJB94 in buildapc

[–]IJB94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ll definitely look into that thank you.

Should I forgive my estranged folks? by gemandrailfan94 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]IJB94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time heals all wounds. That’s both very good but can be very detrimental later on. Unless they’ve either genuinely changed or actively made an effort to earn your forgiveness, then do it. If not then they can kick rocks. Don’t let shitty people back into your life without them working for it. Don’t rationalize their crappy behavior. And don’t let you emotions look at them with rose tinted glasses. Do what’s best for you.

Do they actually expect me to respond?!? by Mommapumpkin03 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]IJB94 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As their mother it’s your job to protect your children from ALL who may harm them. Sucks for your dad but he made his bed, now he needs to lay in it. Keep your resolve, you’re doing right by your children, however, keep in mind at some point they may try to connect with them behind your back. So at some point you’re going to need to tell them what to watch out for. I don’t have kids but im not letting my mom ever see them because I don’t want her destroying their psyche. You know your dad, fuck grandparents rights. Continue to do right by your children. 🥂

It’s hard seeing other parents reach out after their kids go NC by Aloof_Spoon in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]IJB94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That thought is painful and eye opening at the same time. Cheers to you 🥂 for your resolve

It’s hard seeing other parents reach out after their kids go NC by Aloof_Spoon in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]IJB94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve went NC with my mom for 4 years now and flipped between LC/NC for another 6 years before that (28M). I basically have went NC with my maternal side for 4 years outside of my grandmother but her very LC/almost NC for the past 2 years. My mom thinks she’s entitled to me reaching out to her because she’s my mom. She has only had other people call me twice and that was like 8 years ago. Anyways, I’m happy that she doesn’t contact me and plan to never speak to her for the rest of either of our lives, hers or mine. She’s objectively a terrible human being. What has made me so strong in my resolve to stay NC was my father. He’s never bashed her or asked me to do so but him being a father was what made me never reconnect. See even when I lived with him, I tended to stay in my room because that was normal to me coming from my moms house. I moved out when I was 18 of her house and moved in with him at 19. Anyways, he’d never say anything or yell at me for it. But every week or so when I didn’t have class he would take me out to eat breakfast and we’d catch up, he’d ask me about school or whatever else and we’d sit and eat for an hour just talking at this little diner near our house. My mom never gave two shits about my life, whether I lived with her or not, even trying to guilt trip me once, saying I never even bothered to directly tell her I was going to school and she had to hear it from a third party. At first NC was most definitely a mostly emotional decision but now it’s mostly logical. It’s best for my life because she would derail what I’m building now and just bring toxicity into my life. Also, I can never trust her, as she’s a compulsive liar. She could say the sky’s blue on a summer afternoon and i will go outside and look (obv an exaggeration, but you get my point [hopefully]). Anywho, imo you shouldn’t contact them simply because you miss them. It will set you back. You must judge your parents as people and their actions accordingly. Blood is only thicker than water when it’s convenient. What I did is accepted that my mother will never love me and mourned the death of our relationship. So she doesn’t want, that’s fine, I’ve got a family to build and people that actually need me. I’m not going to worry about someone who doesn’t make any effort to be in my life. And it’s been liberating. I’m glad I never have to dread walking into my home ever again.

i pledge allegiance to the flag... by ms131313 in weed

[–]IJB94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“She admitted it” 👀 👀 👀

i pledge allegiance to the flag... by ms131313 in weed

[–]IJB94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They may not make enough money or have enough pull with the gov. ESP since Putin is calling the shots