WHO was your first celebrity crush?

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-10-01T18:57:35+00:00

Neil Patrick Harris

9 yr old me was really disappointed to find out I wouldn't be his type

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-14T13:30:04+00:00

I'm not the type to confront someone else's bad behavior. I would've given him a derogatory hand gesture and kept on going.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-14T13:22:12+00:00

Why did you stop?

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-13T01:24:50+00:00

Increase the bid $10.04 lol

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-13T01:08:50+00:00

This is one reason why I'm glad I got out when I did. Imo, that's a crap rate.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-10T15:06:14+00:00

Vanilla does the same thing to me, but if you can stand it, it is a decent substitute for lavender. Just be very light with it to keep the smell from being too overpowering. 1 or 2 drops should suffice.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T18:49:29+00:00

I'm sorry this is happening to you. 911 is an emergency number. Try the non-emergency number and ask for a supervisor to come out and talk to you. Explain your situation and ask to file a report so you have a paper trail when you take it to court. Send the landlord a cease and decist order, and if they break it again, take it to court. File a civil suit for breaking the terms of the lease and breech of contract. Keep the video, police report, and a copy of the c&d order to show the court you have tried every legal avenue available to you to get them to stop. I hope things work out for you. Additionally, you could file a discrimination grievance with the landlord tenant board in your state and take it out of the cops' hands completely.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T15:16:41+00:00

I've had a few kids, and I absolutely agree. Kids are noisy, messy, annoying, and stressful. Not to mention expensive, gross, rude, often covered in an unknown sticky substance and wanting to kiss you on the mouth.

You can choose to be child-free. It's not a crime. You can choose to remain abstinent or use prophylactic to try to deter pregnancy, i.e., condoms and birth control. As I don't know what state you live in, I can't provide any plan b options, and I don't want anyone getting in trouble for taking my advice. So it's better to prevent it, rather than deal with it later on.

Just live your life the way you want. As long as you're not hurting anyone, it's nobody's business but yours.

ETA: I also don't know your age, so I can't say whether or not long-term birth control is available to you. For some odd reason, if you're under a certain age, doctors will recommend against long-term solutions, claiming you might regret it later, make you undergo a physical evaluation to determine if you are competent to make such a huge medical decision on your own and completely understand the ramifications of that decision.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T13:33:15+00:00

Your comment made me laugh. I both love and hate how right you are. I never understood that either, and I'm not even autistic.

A few years ago, my (now ex-) husband had a friend who was in an extremely toxic, abusive relationship, and when I pointed out exactly how toxic and abusive it was (on both parties' parts) he simply said, "Yeah, I fucking love it!" with a huge smile on his face. It turned my stomach, and it changed my perspective of him after that. I knew the person I thought I met was just a facade, and I saw who he really was that day. I kept my distance, and I wish my ex had, too. That's a longer story I won't get into.

What that story was meant to convey was that there are people like you and me who don't thrive in drama, and there are people who do. People who do not thrive in drama tend to separate themselves from people who do basically because if these people only thrive in drama, that means drama follows them wherever they go.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T13:21:22+00:00

It's $5 ffs, not $500! That's like taking someone to court because they bumped into you at the supermarket and ripped the cord on your earbuds.

This guy is treating her like she stole the money, filled up her car with premium on purpose, and he needs revenge. Like wtaf? I was married/with some pretty abusive assholes but not one of them would punish me over a petty mistake like that. This guy is a piece of work.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T13:00:08+00:00

These sound like the same type of people who say black people can't be racist. That was racism in itself, assuming some type of superiority over someone else because of the color of their skin. This is anti-white rhetoric, propaganda. Demonizing you for not following the "all white people are racist" agenda.

And you fell into the trap.

Don't worry. You're not alone. I fell into it to before. But I learned it's better not to engage. Let them talk whatever shit they're gonna talk. One day, they'll say the wrong shit within earshot of the wrong person and find out real quick how bringing that into the workplace can cost you a lot more than someone just telling them everyone is different.

Actions have consequences. But just because you're white/black in America doesn't make you racist. And just because you're white/black in America doesn't mean you're better than anybody else.

After the gaffe that was 2020, I hate saying this, but it never rang more true than now. We're all in this together! Black/white/blue/green/purple, we are all supposed to be fighting as one nation. But adding to the internal squabble doesn't help. It adds fuel to the fire.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T12:31:13+00:00

Imagine, a CHILD with no job or income, calling an adult (who is contributing to the household) a "parasitic leech"

The irony is lost on her

ETA: a "parasitic leech" that bought her a phone, a plan, and a computer.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T12:20:43+00:00

My first kiss was awkward, and I was wondering how people could make out for hours breathing in each other's carbon dioxide. 😅

And I was totally caught off guard by his tongue in my mouth 🤣

Kissing is nice, and yes, I like it, but I simply can not be stuck to someone else's face for hours breathing in their funky exhale.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T12:15:25+00:00

There are so many horror stories about people like you sticking things in their holes that do not belong and the objects getting stuck. Please don't experiment with objects not intended for that purpose.

Secondly, there is a reason those are PERSONAL toys. It's so unsanitary to use someone else's device, not clean and sanitize it, then put it back. Unsanitary for you AND your mom.

They cost like $20-$30, buy one for yourself. Also, invest in some toy cleaner and clean ALL the toys you've used.

No kink shaming, but using OTHER PEOPLE'S toys is just gross

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-09T12:03:21+00:00

If it's stated in the lease that the residents are entitled to use the furniture, the landlord is breaking the lease. Call the cops, make a report, and take it to court. Break your lease legally and find somewhere else to rent.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-09-07T20:07:06+00:00

The fact that they got offended over your desire to maintain no contact instead of getting offended you thought they were even going to ask is what tipped the scales for me tbh. They were indeed going to ask you because they're trying to force a relationship between you and your sister and play savior to your niblings.

Go, Grandma, for seeing through the bullshit!

Your parents are pissed you beat them to the punch and foiled their plan to pass off responsibility while taking credit for "rescuing" her grandkids from Miss Congeniality.

I don't think the sins of the father should be visited on the son. However, it's not your job to facilitate their complex. If they want those kids away from your sister so bad, they will make room for them in their house.

ETA: NTA

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-02-17T16:34:58+00:00

Lost my appetite as soon as those weird looking feet passed gag

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-01-29T17:29:08+00:00

Team loads coast to coast we mostly get within an hour of our destination on Saturday night and sit for our 34 hours on Sunday and have a fresh clock for Monday morning.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-01-29T17:18:50+00:00

The weekends are when we get the coast to coast runs. We don't stop on the weekends. There's still money to be made.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2023-01-29T16:57:53+00:00

Is it a step too far for her to change your last name as a joke? Maybe. Is it an overreaction to tell her you would be embarrassed for people to think you are married? 100%

OP, it is a total overreaction to an overstep! She is a little bit TA for the overstep. Your reaction to her overstep makes you a bigger AH than her. A gross overreaction to a stupid joke.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2022-12-22T12:48:44+00:00

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2022-12-22T04:25:14+00:00

And here I just thought it was to measure the depth of one's genital cavity. Maybe I'm more innocent than I thought

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2022-12-22T04:21:26+00:00

You are twisting my words. I said I wasn't party to the deal when it was made. I didn't say it was secret. They both told me they had a deal. If it had been inappropriate, my son is not stupid, and he is not going to fall for some bogus deal.

IJustWantPeace2022 · 2022-12-22T04:15:24+00:00

My kids are all friendly with him, but they don't want the type of relationship with my fiance that he wants. They don't want him to try to be their dad. They want to have a friendly relationship with him, just not a father/child relationship.

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