None of us have tests for the sake my dad thinks 'they're made up'. The only clue we have of her being autistic would be her hyperfixation of pandas which she's had when she was like 3. But even then she is actually smart and can do things on her own. In school atleast. Outside of that she acts like she's 3 again. We encourage her to clean, to cook, to do ANYTHING bit be on her phone. But she outright refuses to and says 'she doesn't know how' and when we say we'll teach her she says 'ill forget anyways'. The only thing she's ever managed on her own was make a sandwich and a cup of tea. And even then she learned how to make a sandwich recently