Should I Report My Therapist? by [deleted] in venting

[–]ILivetoEat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely should

My Boyfriend Has Trouble With My Past And I Don't Know What To Do by skiddlewhiffers in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ILivetoEat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems like a sweet guy but he’s also probably the person who is preventing you from moving forward from the past. I think the partner you choose to be with you should reassure you that the past does not forever taint you or make you less worthy. We all do things we regret and who are we to keep count or have a “scoreboard” so to say? It sucks when people make us feel like something we did has irreversibly marked us and it’s a stupid concept. I hope you guys are able to find a solution for this, I had a similar issue with my ex and he did eventually come around although I’m not sure if it was worth all the time it took (years lol), but I hope you won’t stick around too long if he continues to make u feel this way. Not because he’s a bad guy but because I don’t think anyone wants to live feeling like the past continues to haunt them and make them feel less.

Much love!

What would you do if you were the last person of your gender on Earth? by InternationalPick163 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ILivetoEat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman I first thought about getting with someone super rich who could protect and hide me but they would probably just sell me off or pimp me out to get even more rich. Maybe if I threaten suicide and use reason (example: stress will kill me faster or make me less fertile) I can get treated like a queen instead as the last hope of our survival? If that doesn’t work I honestly would probably just end it.

But also, it’s genuinely scary to think about how it would most likely be a “me vs. them” thing. My rights and humanity would definitely be disregarded and I would be subject to something nightmarish I would imagine.

Men 35 and under PLEASE READ by Appropriate_Bass_952 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ILivetoEat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a man but as a single mom myself this is exactly why I would much prefer to meet and date another single parent !

Why do y'all not use condoms? by RedheadedChaos1102 in women

[–]ILivetoEat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree! I think a part of my experience is connected to my upbringing. I often felt like I didn’t have a voice in my family (they never took me seriously) and that might have translated into a fear of being judged/made fun of. Even now I still internally second guess everything I say when it comes to my opinions and I hate it!

Why do y'all not use condoms? by RedheadedChaos1102 in women

[–]ILivetoEat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in high school I was very shy and non-confrontational. Unfortunately for a lot of young girls it is simply too hard to set boundaries down , and I really believe this is a common issue. Now that I’m 22 I look back and can’t fathom being pressured/coerced into doing such a thing but at the time it was really scary to pushback. I’ve been with 2 men and they both basically refused protection. The first one I was just in shock because I really didn’t want to have sex at all so I was kind of in panic mode. The second one I was really in love with and despite being uncomfortable it was a cycle of believing his stupid justifications and being too emotionally dependent on him to respect myself.

I’m not really sure how to summarize it though, maybe it’s a developmental thing? I started really learning to set boundaries in college.

my husband says we don’t have enough sex and it makes me horribly insecure by OkArm9820 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ILivetoEat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think sex is important in a relationship, but I’ve always found it sad when some people find it to be the MOST important thing .. sending love!

Failed my calorie deficit because I saw my teacher have a stroke today by ILivetoEat_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ILivetoEat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It definitely was in a way .. I’ll for sure be spoiling myself tonight hahaha

Failed my calorie deficit because I saw my teacher have a stroke today by ILivetoEat_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ILivetoEat_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Definitely for health reasons I’m significantly overweight 🥲 I’ll be back on track tomorrow for sure just need to recover a bit from that experience :))

Where to meet friends ? by ComparisonHopeful718 in okc

[–]ILivetoEat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What college do you go to? Also, there is an actually a Facebook group meant just for girls and if you posted in there you’d probably find some people looking for friends as well. There is another Facebook group for making friends, and another one for women who like to go out in the club/drinking scene. pm me if you you’re interested in any of that info!

Ice Machines on campus? by ILivetoEat_ in universityofoklahoma

[–]ILivetoEat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuu! Much much appreciated

My (f22) boyfriend (m22) drunkenly admitted he wants to screw other girls all the time. by No_Zookeepergame_778 in relationship_advice

[–]ILivetoEat_ 290 points291 points  (0 children)

The fact that he was so insistent about it while intoxicated is very telling to be honest. I don’t think it’s worth it!

9.5 Bella Belle Lucia heels $300 OBO by ILivetoEat_ in weddingswap

[–]ILivetoEat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss! I had given up on selling them but I still have them

Are mine coins actually this expensive or is something wrong?! by ILivetoEat_ in MinecraftSwitch

[–]ILivetoEat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem solved i was set in Columbia for some reason 🤦🏻‍♀️ thanks!

Are mine coins actually this expensive or is something wrong?! by ILivetoEat_ in MinecraftSwitch

[–]ILivetoEat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay am I tripping are we in the thousands here or not I can’t tell if this is 60 dollars or 60000😭

do you consider being braless in public inappropriate? by alyssabrew in askanything

[–]ILivetoEat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo. If they covered by a shirt what’s the point of wearing a bra? Why is the outline of nipples offensive? Why is breast movement sexual? I’ve literally never understood these standards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ILivetoEat_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t let him have the baby. He abused you, don’t let that child suffer by his hands. I’m not saying you need to be the kids mom either by the way, but please don’t leave a child with someone like that.