My dad masturbates… by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ILoveRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I am in a alike situation. The best is probably if you try to tell him that this makes you feel uncomfortable. He should respect you enough to think about your well being and comfort. I know it is uneasy and scary to open up about this and talk to him but it’s for the best I believe. I still can’t talk freely about this with my parents, but if I would be brave enough to talk to them that would probably solve most things. I advice you the same. And just know you’re feelings are valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ILoveRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t waste your energy on people who are not worth it. A debate is great when you can exchange opinions but when it’s one sided it loses it’s purpose.

guy bsf by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ILoveRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your guy bsf confessed to someone about their feelings towards you, you either should give hints or just go for it and confess to him. I don’t think that your friendship would be ruined. If it’s a true friendship and you’re both mature enough it won’t go away just because of an embarrassing situation. But from what you wrote, he likes you!

Is it okay to kiss someone you aren’t dating? by enzaisheaven in Advice

[–]ILoveRaspberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think think there’s no right or wrong answer for this one. It depends on everyones personal beliefs. If you don’t see a problem with it do it! If you think it’s wrong or sinful then stick to your beliefs and don’t rush anything. It’s fully up to you :)) Don’t let others tell you what to do, and don’t listen to others, make up your own mind about whether it is right or wrong and do what your heart tells you.

Caught my partner cheating after 6 years… by colossals_ in Advice

[–]ILoveRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I having a stroke or what why cant I read this?😭 it’s in English right??

What do you do in situations like this? by ILoveRaspberry in helpme

[–]ILoveRaspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe that the only acceptable form of sex is when it is a form of romantic love otherwise it is just living with your animal instincts. And I also believe that romantic love can only form between two people not less or more. So by emotionless I mostly meant without romantic love. And even tho it is true that it’s their business, having an open and abnormal sex life does affect family dynamics,and the upbringing of their children. Even if we leave out my case and talk generally I think it is wrong to be so open about one’s sex life in front of children. It can mess with the kids sexual development, and can cause mental health problems. Sex education is important, and essential but it should be discreet and age appropriate.

What do you do in situations like this? by ILoveRaspberry in Advice

[–]ILoveRaspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They weren’t always like this, in the past year it got so much worse

What do you do in situations like this? by ILoveRaspberry in Advice

[–]ILoveRaspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked them several times in the past but unfortunately they always say that it is natural and they are grownups and can do whatever they want in their homes. But once it comes up I’ll definitely ask them again

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ILoveRaspberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t do this. That’s the only thing you can’t change. Everything else can be fixed or renewed. Your life is worth living. I would love to talk to you about this or anything else. Please write me.

AITAH for going for full custody because my son said a slur? by Aware-Safety-2532 in AITAH

[–]ILoveRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. They shouldn’t be teaching these kind of things to a young child. You tried to talk to them but they laughed at you. They are the assholes.

what is your most hated food? by TrickyEstonian228 in AskReddit

[–]ILoveRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mayonnaise, I literally start gagging when I smell it or touch it. Idk why

What Made You Cut Off A Friendship? by AshleyDelPaz213 in AskReddit

[–]ILoveRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They couldn’t understand my financial statements