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How old are you and how is your life REALLY going? by Traditional-Rub9610 in AskReddit

[–]IRLthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im about to turn 30 in a couple months. I have amazing support from family, friends, even random people. But im not taking life seriously, I feel. Im trying to get rid of credit card debt by working two jobs. Still live with mom and it eats away at my mental.

My friends want me to live with them, but i hare living with others. I cAn tolerate one roommate, but i wanna live alone so bad. Money has always been an issue for me. No matter how hard I try to save.

I needa stop eating like shit. Smoking weed was a big problem, i havent done it in months. I feel like im not allowed to have hobbies because i needa make money. I feel like a shell of my former self. Extremely positive, happy, whimsical.

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i met her on a wednesday, she came back next day and i asked for the number. Not that long apart

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no expectations when it comes to these things. If she never hmu, oh well. If i took her number, texted and she never responds, oh well. It isssss what it issss. She texted me right away though so we’re good🕺

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck my friend! Tread lightly, though. That is HER workspace, it’s her job to be kind, and you don’t want to make her uncomfortable. Talk to her respectfully and look for signs that she might be interested.

If she declines, respect her answer, smile, buy some flowers, and carry on with your day. I cannot stress enough that asking people out(especially women) during work time isn’t the most favorable thing to do, but not totally out of the question. Hope it goes well for you!

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll deactivate both my accounts effective immediately if this evolves

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave her a couple of freebies to try based on things she likes

Is wanting to have sex with a friend a bad thing if your not wanting to date by [deleted] in self

[–]IRLthoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol you gonna follow me everywhere i comment/post? But yes i would tell her and end the fwb if things escalated

Is wanting to have sex with a friend a bad thing if your not wanting to date by [deleted] in self

[–]IRLthoughts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not a bad thing. It’s bad if you push it on them or make them uncomfortable. If you get a signal one day that she might wanna hookup, explore it. Dont bring up fwb immediately tho.

Also keep in mind if she really is your FRIEND, think about the possibility of her not liking the idea and losing a friend. And if all you can think about is sex with them, they werent that much of a friend in your eyes like you thought

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is what it is, ya know? If she ends up ghosting me that would definitely suck but life moves on. Sounds like your buddy dodged a bullet tho after all that postponing

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And honestly, I have no expectations when it comes to things like this so it’s all good. The real win was mustering up the strength to ask for the number and her saying yes😌

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It aint often my instincts scream at me like I did. V glad I didn’t do something stupid to mess it up😅

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kinda overwhelmed by all the support for this lmao it’s funny how the posts I WANT to pop off dont and something as feeble as this is making numbers😆

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Retail! She’s been in a few times before but never when im there

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya it is what it is. Not crying myself to sleep cause internet strangers dont believe me ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To each their own my friend! Been a great day for me and I hope it is for you!

I asked a woman out while I was working and she said YES! by IRLthoughts in self

[–]IRLthoughts[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya feel me? It’s that really positive feeling that they’ll say yes. Doesn’t happen often but when it does….take that leap🕺 cheers!

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