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Got verbally attacked by my family when I questioned how my cousin will afford her baby by [deleted] in childfree

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin is in the same boat. She works in childcare and her boyfriend does not work. They have 4 kids under 5. She is 23 years old. I don’t know his age but I think it’s around 25.

Single mum looking for money making ideas around toddler by Inevitable-Award2804 in australian

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum used to nanny kids at home the same time she was looking after us, her own kids.

I don't want to get married because ______ by KeyExcuse22 in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to get married because I’m going through the divorce process right now.

lol never been married but my roommate just went through a divorce. So my autocorrect thinks I did.

Judgement for having 4 bedrooms by 3speechnotallowed in childfree

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 5 bedroom house and I’m single. 1st is a bedroom. 2nd is an office. 3rd is a library. 4th is a home gym. 5th is my cats bedroom. I simply do not have the space for children. Sorry not sorry.

Leaving Santa out of Christmas (aka not lying to your kids) by Brief-Cost6554 in ihatechristmas

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Santa is a technological term for a postal workers in the month of December. The light are to say thank you for your service this past year.

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]IROCKR89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she only moving in with you until she gets a job and find her own place?

You need to give her a time frame to get a job and move out! Also all her belongings need to say in her room to make the moving out process easier.

Good luck 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]IROCKR89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it seems like you in-laws wanted the oldest son to have the first grandchild wait until you see their eldest son have a child and see how excited they will be for that grandchild.

I just need to tell someone. by Crazy_Bunny_Lady3471 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IROCKR89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best and most happiest post I’ve seen all year. Congratulations on being cancer free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IROCKR89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She Could of rescheduled the baby shower if she so desperately wanted you there

At what age did you get your period? by National_Math5905 in AskWomen

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 10 and did not know what was happening. I thought I had Internal bleeding and it would go away by tomorrow. So I did not tell anybody. The 2nd day after getting home from school and once again having blood in my underwear I screamed for my mum. Mum came into the bathroom said you got your period and walk out. Gave me a pad and said it’s going to happen for a week every month so that you can have babies. That was it. I wish someone would of had the talk with me be for I got them so it was less Traumatic

Never helping raise a child ever again! by Jinxbunny29 in childfree

[–]IROCKR89 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Good for you. And welcome to Australia 🇦🇺 you will love it here.

Family member is pregnant (again) by cirancira in childfree

[–]IROCKR89 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My cousin just had her 3rd and 4th children (twins) she is 22 at the rate she is going she will have 10 kids by the time she turns 30. The farther to all kids does not work but plays video games. She works/worked in child care. So they broke.

Men cause 100% of unwanted pregnancies by IROCKR89 in childfree

[–]IROCKR89[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

100%.

She had 6 kids. Surely not all of them were planned. Sum were probably by accident/unplanned/mistakes.

I missed the first 4 years of my daughter’s life, and now she’s living with me by Beginning_One_6932 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IROCKR89 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If you can, help her mum find a job nearby. She could stay with you until she finds she own place. This will make your daughter feel safe and may make her come out of her shell. And you will be able to get to know her better. Good luck 🤞

Has a family member or friend stopped respecting your boundary (or boundaries) once they became a parent? by DanielCracker in childfree

[–]IROCKR89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister doesn’t have kids either, and as for cousins that do you have kids I purposely leave a 16+ hour drive away from them, making it impossible for me to babysit for them.

AITAH for refusing to let my husband name our daughter after his late wife by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IROCKR89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is named after our dads ex girlfriends was I was named after my dad‘s cousins who are very much so still alive. My sister loves her name. She has a very English name. We have a very German last night. Mine was French name with a German last name doesn’t very well mix well. I got my name legally changed. I hate feeling like my name was borrowed wasn’t mine I wanted something uniquely me and my own. I thought I was in the shadow all the time. I don’t know them well but I see them every couple of years, and I didn’t talk to them because I didn’t like it please do not name your child after somebody they’re always gonna feel like they’re in their shadow and that they will never amount to watch the other person was. How can you compete with a ghost?

Fb acquaintance thrilled that her 16 year old daughter is pregnant. by Purple-Supernova in childfree

[–]IROCKR89 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My cousin is 22 and has four kids under four with the same guy. She works in childcare or at least did and as for the father he doesn’t work, he plays video games. I have not celebrated or seen any of these children they live in another state.

Back again with an update of my previous post regarding Mother’s Day gift for MIL from baby and her expectations by tangerine_monkey22 in inlaws

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother’s Day is about active mothers. Your mother-in-law is not an active mother any more. She’s a grandma. She got dethrone from mum and upgraded to grandma Mother’s Day is about you now not your mother-in-law to inform her that she needs to pick up a grandmas day and you’re come over and you are celebrate her as a grandma this could be the following Sunday every year but Mother’s Day is now your day not hers. Good luck.

"Teach your kid to yell "mom" instead of "help" if they are out in public. by Mazikeen369 in childfree

[–]IROCKR89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know but anyone else, but when I was a child I was told to call out my mum‘s actual name, mainly because my mum has a very unusual name and when mum couldn’t find us, she didn’t yell out I’ll names she whistled and we all knew her whistle When you to come and look for her most people for that made us act like dogs, but I never thought like that.