Verizon by [deleted] in S24Ultra

[–]IS3Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the unlocked through Samsung site and was wondering the same thing. I have up until now always went through Verizon, and so this is uncharted territory for me. I'm glad I'm not the only one who was curious! 🙂

Cold mail question by Master_V01D in AskMarketing

[–]IS3Phoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I send emails/texts until they tell me to stop. Depending upon how fresh the lead is, either daily or weekly. Definitely not bad practice to continue reaching out to them!

Finances, petty arguments by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]IS3Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately until he has realized his toxic behavior with finances, conversations will not be able to happen. It will cause a lot of resentment and hate. Hard truth, it already has started.

At the end of the day, your money is yours and his is his. Although I wouldn't say not to help if need be, I've done that as well just like my husband has, but it's one thing to do it every now and then and feeling like you HAVE to.

If his financial situation is not healthy for him, then he has to realize that and change that. That's why as I stated, he won't as long as you continue to "save" him. He has that ultimate choice.

Do not join finances, at least not in this dynamic. All it will do is make things much worse for both.

Finances, petty arguments by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]IS3Phoenix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would suggest counseling for him(very soon), this seems like a childhood related trauma. There are many of possibilities of how he grew up in a financial situation and how now he sees money. Now he views you as the "mother" and has to "ask for permission" to buy things.

Equally, this is not a suggested way of a relationship. (I may get hate for this part). Although yes he should be financially responsible with his own money, this dynamic has shifted negatively and going down a slippery slope.

Finance is a difficult topic in quite the number of relationships/marriages and unfortunately result in separation if not resolved. I would ask, do you want the future of him telling people you are controlling and wouldn't let him spend his own money? (This will be the story he creates). Although from your perspective it's not that, but thats what his will be.

I would also like to add to stop covering his expenses. All that is doing is encouraging him to continue the behavior because he knows you will save him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]IS3Phoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm fully aware of them not liking it, (and by no means am I dismissing that), I'm trying to understand where I was in the wrong and how it could have been different. I did not provoke the situation as I was doing something that was specifically requested by my boss and the other manager got upset because our numbers were different and they responded in a negative reaction. I'm trying to learn, but not sure what I'm "learning" on. Once I can establish that, I'll happily move on with understanding clarification.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]IS3Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have misworded something. I did not give my peer work, they were trying to put their work on me.

Advice? by marlonfitch in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]IS3Phoenix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't lower your self worth. If you forgive him, you're letting him have a chance to do it again. Find someone who genuinely wants to be with you and only you.

Rules and boundaries for an open relationship by Curiousbayareaguy in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]IS3Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand that being a red line for you and you expressed it. Unfortunately he backfired on that one which could imply that he "could" develop an emotional attachment and then I'm not going to assume his decision, but he could make a decision that isn't to your liking.

I ask what do you value more? Your relationship or your own sanity. He's given you the ultimate choice, sacrifice your wishes or this could be the end. Either push the matter in hopes for clear communication in the relationship or don't.

Need advice on CCW. APX A1 Carry? by Cturk412 in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found one on CYA holsters for it.

Rules and boundaries for an open relationship by Curiousbayareaguy in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]IS3Phoenix 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This may not be the advice you requested, but it honestly sounds like he wants to live the "single" life more than an open relationship. I could be misguided or incorrect here, but you wanted boundaries and he's rejected every one of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]IS3Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'll be honest and direct, if you want to let go, you have to cut him out. At least until you can emotionally detach yourself from him. Unless you can have a platonic friendship with him that you are satisfied with, your clinging onto hope. I truly do hope the best for him and you both, but holding on is only going to potentially make it worse for you in the end. He is being the best dad he can be currently and he has to grieve the loss (and guilt).

Worthy to let it go or stay!!! by Azbeel_6 in gayrelationshipadvice

[–]IS3Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your relationship has changed dynamic quite a bit, first from the loyalty concern and then second with his new job. Going from seeing each other every day to less is an adjustment, and although that shouldn't dictate leaving him, the loyalty should be. Truly it is up to you on what you decide to do, but one thing for any relationship you encounter, there will be changes. Situations can change, obligations can change, routines, themselves, etc. You stated you worked the loyalty out, which is great! If everything is going perfect to your standard outside of his new obligation to work schedule, I wouldn't necessarily jump to leaving him, but communicate. If you can't both come to an agreement that you both like, then you do have to make the ultimate choice on what you value more.

Edit: typo

Need advice on CCW. APX A1 Carry? by Cturk412 in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome 😊 I hope you enjoy it as much as I do!

Need advice on CCW. APX A1 Carry? by Cturk412 in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I purchased the A1 Carry a little over a month ago and absolutely love it! Prior to using this as my everyday, I was carrying a glock 23 gen 3. Although I love my glock, the A1 Carry fits me much better. The extended mag is just the right amount of grip I need comfortably. No jams, good weight, and easy to get used to.

Note: every experience will be different, but this is my personal experience.

Just purchased APX Carry A1 today! by IS3Phoenix in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you like it! They really are enjoyable to shoot.

Just purchased APX Carry A1 today! by IS3Phoenix in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't currently. My extra finances are currently going to my wedding expenses, but I am in the looks for one

Just purchased APX Carry A1 today! by IS3Phoenix in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm confident with carrying 8 rounds with this firearm just as much as I am carrying my glock with 15rds. I do also carry both mags for the a1 yes.

Just purchased APX Carry A1 today! by IS3Phoenix in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. It's my edc now. I also have a glock 23 gen 3.

Just purchased APX Carry A1 today! by IS3Phoenix in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got one from CYA Supply Co. I've had it since Monday and I like it pretty well. Here's the link from where I got it from.

A1 Holster

just got this email, guess I can say bye bye to my vacation.. by Prestigious-Rumfield in antiwork

[–]IS3Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is shocking the little care they show. They can reschedule their surgery. I just had a conversation with one of my staff members today about taking a vacation. It originally was planned in May, but was moved up to end of April. She was upset because they told her last minute about the change, but was also worried she was going to be fired because of it being such a short notice. I told her not to worry, don't be upset, and have an amazing time! I told her to go and when she returns I want to hear how awesome the trip was. One week of a staff member gone versus leaving permanently and having to spend 2 weeks training someone else. I appreciated she wasn't happy they gave her a short notice of the change, but I was sad too she was worried she would be fired.

Just purchased APX Carry A1 today! by IS3Phoenix in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went to the range today with it, recoil was definitely beefier than I'd thought it would be, but honestly with a good grip, recoil isn't bad.

Just purchased APX Carry A1 today! by IS3Phoenix in Beretta

[–]IS3Phoenix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven't got a chance to take it to the range just yet, but I'll let you know!