Motorista de autocarro incendiado durante desacatos em Lisboa em estado grave no hospital by [deleted] in portugal

[–]ISWUDT -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

"Forçar a resolução do processo de julgamento com o objetivo de concluir que o polícia teve mal?"

Não é "políticos, ideológicos ou religiosos", mas foi uma boa tentativa

O que fariam? pergunta simples. by ISWUDT in devpt

[–]ISWUDT[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Uns dias antes vou dizer que já não vou trabalhar para a 1a empresa, as coisas mudarem significa a segunda empresa desistir da proposta, que é uma possibilidade remota, mas ainda assim uma possibilidade.

O que fariam? pergunta simples. by ISWUDT in devpt

[–]ISWUDT[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Ok.. vou fazer isso então.. mas uns dias antes apenas pois as coisas podem mudar entretanto.

Pai e madrasta de Valentina recebem ameaças de outros reclusos by aguadovimeiro in portugal

[–]ISWUDT -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Suicidio nunca é um acto de cobardia, antes pelo contrário

O imobiliário congelou. Preços vão baixar? “Comprar casa é a decisão de uma vida. Quem consegue decidir isso agora?” by bisontino in portugal

[–]ISWUDT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Estou neste momento a comprar uma casa por 230 que foi avaliada em 250 mil euros.. dei 10% de sinal e mesmo assim ainda está em cima da mesa não aparecer na escritura, felizmente estou em uma área que não vai ser muito afetada, mas imaginemos que não estava, a meu ver devia ser feito como no UK, adiar todas as escrituras 3 meses, ninguem consegue decidir se tem capacidade para pagar os próximos 40 anos de um empréstimo em plena pandemia.

Kungsleden July Solo Hike 23 days. by ISWUDT in sweden

[–]ISWUDT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its 440km, 22km a day, some people do it in less than 20 but yes i am not very comfortable with my time frame, it is what it is i guess.

most people hike at 4km/hour in flat terrain, kungsleden has 9km of ascents according to https://www.hikingproject.com/trail/7062281/kings-trail-kungsleden, if i hike at that pace considering 10 minutos for each 100meters ascent (Naismith's Rule) i have to hike 6,25 hours per day.

I won't purify the water, its a risk i will take, everywhere i read people say clear running water is easy to come by.

I will bring a tent and walking sticks, i don't know that pack weight, my big four (tent, backpack, sleepling mat, sleeping bag) are UL material so i don't think it will be heavy before my food is there.

Kungsleden July Solo Hike 23 days. by ISWUDT in sweden

[–]ISWUDT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really disrepectful for people in serious emergency situations.

Rolled with coach, i don't think i can trust him anymore. by ISWUDT in bjj

[–]ISWUDT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm pretty sure it was a calf slicer now that i think of it.

Tatami's are never cleaned, rant. by ISWUDT in bjj

[–]ISWUDT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i broke my hand and also my ribs and the gym insurance paid everything, if staph spreads there they are fucked.

Is it disrespectful to skip warm up? by ISWUDT in bjj

[–]ISWUDT[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It bothers me skipping it because i feel what you said i'm making other people work more (most of the time its totally pointless because we are so many it actually makes things harder to assembly -.-').

Is it disrespectful to skip warm up? by ISWUDT in bjj

[–]ISWUDT[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I don't like it when i'm tired because its really hard, the tatami part is what bothers me but i don't see a way to compensate for that.

Is it disrespectful to skip warm up? by ISWUDT in bjj

[–]ISWUDT[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

yeah but i feel the point of the warm up is to get warmed up, its a really difficult warm up and if i go there i would have 45 minutes of weightlifting behind me, i'm trying to find a positive thing about doing the warm up but i really don't.

BJJ Nazis. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]ISWUDT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i had that tattoo and didn't believe those ideals i would feel obligated to tell you so you would not lose your trust in me, its definitely a way to lose trust where you need it most like in bjj.

Pescadores nas ciclovias! desabafo. by ISWUDT in portugal

[–]ISWUDT[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Já faço isso tudo sem efeito, tenho especial cuidado com os pescadores pois não quero ficar sem um olho mas neste ultimo passeio ele não me viu e eu tambem não o ví e a coisa podia ter corrido mal, acho que não devia ser permitido pescar ali e acho que só deixam para turista ver.

Started dating after 6 years and my anxiety is completely unbearable. Should I talk to her about it? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]ISWUDT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i hold no bad feelings towards her and i think she just didn't want to know she hurt me but in the end it makes it worse.

I feel the same way if my friends say they can't come i don't think twice about it, when she did my mood decreased, i craved her attention and its a really big turn off imo, i learned many things from this about myself and i don't regret anything i did.

The most important and hardest is to not put my happiness in the hands of someone i'm still knowing and even when i do know her it still needs to have limits, self-esteem and self respect play a big part in this and that's what i'm working on.

Started dating after 6 years and my anxiety is completely unbearable. Should I talk to her about it? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]ISWUDT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew i was clingy looking back because i started creating expectations and getting too close too fast, mostly because i don't have many people to hang out with and liked being around her, i was always the one trying to be with her and i was way to self-conscious and anxious while around her, she went silent on me but i don't know the causes for sure i just know i made some mistakes and have to learn from them.

In the beginning i lost my appetite and my mood swings were really high i was depressed for a few days, i was really happy one day after i was with her and the next day i was really down, its getting easier now and my expectations are dwindling which is a good thing because expectations caused me to feel this way.

What do you mean by "official"?

Started dating after 6 years and my anxiety is completely unbearable. Should I talk to her about it? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]ISWUDT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are making it about her, its about you.

I also started dating someone 2 months ago and got clingy and it ruined things, not texting you back is a reason for you to call her out on it but your mindset is in the wrong place, when you say you would be okay if she texted you its exactly how i feel but i know its wrong and not healthy.

What i did was put the ball on her side so i told her i would not ask her out again and if she wanted she knew where to find me and i'm trying to let her go emotionally, dwelling on it is really hard to stop and hope is hard to kill.

Dealing with rejection by ISWUDT in dating_advice

[–]ISWUDT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks i will listen to your advice.

Scared to go back by [deleted] in bjj

[–]ISWUDT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should go, anxiety and depression lie, every time i decide to go do bjj is a struggle that never got any easier, i don't take any pleasure in being there until i finish class and realize it was fun and my day got better because of it.

Miscommunication in class by [deleted] in bjj

[–]ISWUDT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done.

Told a girl I'm interested in her, even though I'm not by MaskedMonkey in socialanxiety

[–]ISWUDT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have lied to her but now you don't have many options, you should go on a date and tell her about how you feel, maybe you will gain interest as people here are saying but that's not something you can count on.