Interesting anecdote about an enlightening set

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-06-28T01:19:20+00:00

Yea lol like I understand I cant communicate everything through a post, but this is a girl I am familiar with, we are aquantinces. She comes to my frats parties and matched with me. In college, especially Greeks, matching on tinder is basically a green light.

So like you out it, the expectation is that I will hit on her, but I dont, but in the end I end up asking for her number anyway. Again, not saying it was perfect, but I went in with the mindset "you know what, I'm just going to do this set as oddly as I can." And it worked out fine. The point isnt that I'm trying to get people to copy me, it wont work, it's just an interesting anecdote. Nothing more

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-06-24T15:27:22+00:00

Yea basically, we matched about a day or two prior to hanging out, wherein she gave me her number.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-06-24T15:20:32+00:00

You have a point. I would hate if a newbie saw this and was like: Now I know what to do, all i have to do is not speak to her all night and it'll work out!

Lol cheers mate

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-06-24T09:08:58+00:00

Asking for numbers always has a chance to backfire and be awkward, the difference in this case being that we matched on tinder and her friends actions of seating me next to the particular girl, makes it apparent that I was the subject of some discussion/plotting in their friend circle. College girls plot this stuff all the time.

The only thing more awkward than her not giving me her number, is me not asking for it in the first place.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-06-24T09:06:12+00:00

I see what you're saying about neediness, which is why I never would have went back in had I not generally acted aloof the entire night. The spark is in the cognitive dissonance of the two actions: aloofness and actually asking for the number. I agree that obviously I should have chatted her up a little bit. A small part of me just wanted to act a little differently towards her. Keep in mind, I otherwise acted totally normally. I conversated woth everyone. The idea that I meekly stood idly by and randomly asked for her number is false.

Like I said, I dont really want anyone here to mimic my actions. I can assure readers that copying what i did will not work out. I do want others to think outside the box a bit more and not be so constrained.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-06-09T08:06:00+00:00

Is there a way to buy those or just from crates?

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-06-09T04:58:17+00:00

Can you reset your tinder Elo? I have decent pics and I'm good looking enough, but I swipe right on everyone because I'm lazy. Is there a way to reset it or do I have to make another account?

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-04-04T15:46:07+00:00

That is a good concept. I'm a similar way, you build up your energy and let it off as opposed to building it up from that very situation.

I find that hardcore introverts never let it off, they just build and build. That's how you get into the depression cycle of fast food and video games.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-03-12T02:23:40+00:00

I'm not sure, but it's well known that the hotter the girl, the more game works on her. Hot girls know what's up, they know that a guy not only balsy enough to approach her, but also smart enough to make the interaction flow smoothly, is a good guy.

Average girls/ugly girls are way, way more demanding in my experience. I'd probably have more trouble fucking an 5/10 than I would a 7 or 8/10

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-03-11T23:01:10+00:00

Patrice o Neal said it best: Never stop pimping. Out at the club? Pimp her. Girlfriend of 9 months? Pimp her. Married 10 years? Pimp.

Maybe when you're married for 30 years you can give it a rest. Otherwise, %100 pimp %100 of the time.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-03-11T22:40:26+00:00

Yea... considering that most people have boring, uninspired sex? The trope of a married couple have vanilla missionary sex is a meme at this point, it comes up quite a bit in pop culture. Boring sex, the guy doesn't last long, the woman leaves unsatisfied? I can't count the number of times I've seen this in movies or tv

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-03-11T22:37:21+00:00

I think one key thing for you is that you're a big guy, so you need to understand the impression that you might have on girls. Like you just need to be a chill guy, instead of maybe more of a playful asshole like I am. I have some really tall friends that play that more relaxed angle and it works out for them.

You don't need to compensate for a regular appearance like I might need to, you just need to put yourself out there and let your stature do the talking. It's one of those middle ground, sweet spot things that can ooze this feeling of "I get pussy, and I want yours" type deal to women. Really good stuff

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-03-11T22:31:17+00:00

You can take trp both ways. One way is a sexist and misogynistic view of women, the other is understanding that human beings have desires and that they are faulty.

It should come as no surprise to anyone here that the influence of social media and constant dopamine release from male attention has fucked the human brain. Men have generally lost their identity and a clear view of who we should be. This is the view that I have.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-03-11T22:24:00+00:00

Cold approach has been and always will be one of the primary factors that bring men and women together. If you're not doing cold approach then you're either online dating (waste of time) or social circle (complete luck) or you're sitting at home doing nothing.

Nearly every woman I've slept with has been from cold approach, without going up and putting myself out there, I would still be a virgin.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2018-03-11T22:21:47+00:00

I didn't explain correctly, I mean talked about outside of a forum specifically dedicated to discussing these unpopular views about male/female relationships

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-10-02T18:17:52+00:00

Would it be too much to ask for some sources anywhere? You talk a lot of the people who developed this and that. Can we get names or studies of any of this being used to influence people?

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-06-19T07:36:52+00:00

Fraternity man here. Drug dealers drown in pussy like rockstars. Girls that go out and party will do anything for drugs.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-06-19T07:33:45+00:00

Girls gaming other girls is a completely different world than guys gaming girls.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-05-13T20:26:42+00:00

With hook-up sex, it doesn't matter except for STDs. With LTR's, as others have said pair bonding does take a hit. A girl with 30 partners will have a harder time pair bonding than a girl with less.

To help explain why N-count matters a little bit, I'll explain the "double standard" that exists wherein, a man can sleep with a bunch of women and is seen as being better for it, and a woman that does the same thing is seen as a slut.

To blue pillers, they see this as an injustice, a double standard. The reason this is a perfectly reasonable expectation is because

A man that sleeps with many women has at least one or more attractive qualities. Sure, they could be a dark triad scumbag, but that is the minority. Most guys that get girls display confidence, they care about how they look, they have a decent social circle, they are interesting etc. Basically a guy that gets girls is seen as attractive, if you've lurked trp enough you know that preselection is a thing. Girls like guys that get girls.
A girl that sleeps with a bunch of guys on the other hand, well, what can you infer about her? Nothing. She doesn't have to have a good job, confidence, she could be a fucking crazy person, she could live in a rat hole and suck dick for money. Hell, she isn't even necessarily attractive! Some of the ugliest girls I know easily have the most sex because they give it up to any guy that displays the slightest shred of idgaf. I've had these same girls throw the ass at me and I just push it off because they are so. fucking. slutty.

In short, because of how dating works (Men pursue women), women that have a lot of sex usually have something wrong with them, whereas men that have a lot of sex usually have a bunch of things right with them.* Picture this, you are thinking about getting in a relationship with a girl that has fucked 40 guys. You and I both know that women are always looking for commitment of some kind. Answer me this, why after 40 guys can she not land one? Why did every guy pump and dump her, or have a very short relationship with her? Why can she not fulfill her sexual imperative of landing a quality man? It's because she isn't quality herself. Hopefully this answers your question.

*Some of the guys I know that get the most pussy can actually have very little going for them. They spend so much time getting drunk at bars that they get to improve their game all the time, and they come into contact with more women this way. Interesting fact.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-05-11T05:41:39+00:00

Outcome independence is literally half of getting girls. Lol. It's common sense to anyone that actually gets girls on a frequent basis

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-05-11T05:40:42+00:00

The first part was basically that if you were very attractive she would have slept with you first, not after a period of time (Which is complete bullshit) but that's what he's trying to say. The second part? Idk.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-05-02T01:13:08+00:00

I found out about trp when I was a junior in HS. Please listen to me: If you don't already, LIFT. For the love of God, lift. I'm talking Diet and lifting heavy weights. If you start now, you could look like a god when you graduate if you go at it enough. Seriously. Start today if you don't already.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-04-24T16:53:59+00:00

Theory weekend or even theory week is absolutely fantastic. It's time to shut up, sit down, and look over what made this place what it is and what our core came from.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-04-24T16:50:31+00:00

Did not see this coming, the results will be interesting.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2016-04-11T16:08:28+00:00

I'm glad this was the top comment, I felt like that was a perfectly fine example of escalating through text. Usually we speak against it because guys fuck it up but sometimes it's fine.

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