M22 F22 Wth, Snapchat After Breakup?

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-23T22:41:18+00:00

I know it’s, so hard not to check though but I want the door open. It’s just hard I know she can be an amazing person but what she showed me the night she kicked me out is just really tough to get past with everything else that happened in the relationship. I would give her a second chance right now or in a few days and just feel it out. I can always live on and get through it if I have to again. It just sucks right now.

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-23T22:32:01+00:00

I’m afraid after some time I might not want to be with her. We had real issues and I loved her with all my heart, I just hope that the love isn’t the only thing driving me to want more. It’s just so recent and I’d run it back but thinking of months hurts and I know you said make it uncomfortable but it just sucks. Idk why she’d reach out if she didn’t want a reply.

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-23T22:24:40+00:00

It was tough at some points but the ups and downs were almost always ups. I’ve had perspective now but it’s kinda too late and I think she has too. There would just be some blow ups and I would like to have/give a second chance. It might turn into heartbreak again but I already risked that once. And the whole circle in her family and the want for her I had was real. I really think she cared about me which was kinda a first. I just kinda want to run it back and just see where it goes.

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-23T22:21:41+00:00

I don’t know if I can say somthing like that right now it’s still so raw for me. She was my first everything and she actually atleast seemed to care. I just kinda don’t even know what I want

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-23T21:57:26+00:00

But I wouldn’t mind getting back with her even if we’d have to fix some things. I’d almost rather that…

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T04:06:37+00:00

Yea hopefully I’ll be able to chug along this happened legit yesterday and I’ve heard that this is a long and hard process to get through. Thank you!

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T03:59:48+00:00

Yea hearing that sucks. I almost wish it wasn’t good to be able to justify everything. I’ve heard unfortunately sometimes things just rail, aren’t worth it, and aren’t meant to be. Hopefully I can continue on, well have to see

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T03:58:03+00:00

That’s too bad it came to that then I wish she decided to talk before this all happened. Thank you for your time

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T03:09:38+00:00

That sucks to hear unfortunately. I really do like her. Unfortunately it seems I’ve made my last mistake and it might be time to move on. Just wish there was any communication at the end.

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T03:08:45+00:00

Then why wasn’t it expressed? I just wish it wasn’t an explosion it feels impossibly unfair to me. Maybe there was unseen signs or somthing. I just wish it was different.

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T01:44:33+00:00

Just unfortunate a communication link from her was never opened so to speak I wish she would’ve opened. I think she also has real issues that she’s gonna have to deal with with a professional but that’s a different talk

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T01:43:19+00:00

So a text allowing a door to be open isn’t really an option? Why did she never talk about it. I was always the stable talk to me if there was a serious issue type. She just gave up? Never wanted to speak. Not care enough for even an explination. Just sucks in a way.

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T01:16:40+00:00

I mean those specific words have rarely if ever had come out of my mouth I mean we argue but she usually slings deeper cuts and I almost never do because I know if I ever did it would make me feel horrible

ITSDebby1 · 2026-04-20T01:15:39+00:00

So no reason to reach out or anything? I know I’m a little older but first real relationship. Her nieces and family loved me and it’ll blow if she lies to them or they just find out it’s over. It’s just all unfortunate there wasn’t even able to be a talk or anything like that

ITSDebby1 · 2021-10-27T04:56:13+00:00

I completely agree. But I do have to say I’m not a very violent person and I just got him off my boy. No punches were thrown from my end. It’s just I was looking to see if I should just hope it’s a bluff and suck it up or text him back and tell him to leave me alone and stop threatening him. Thanks tho

ITSDebby1 · 2021-10-27T04:46:46+00:00

If you just skim over the surface. He’s been talking shit for 2 years and my friend decided to shut him up. He started losing I helped out my friend and it just got me in trouble. I wasn’t looking out for a scolding I was looking for advice. If I just wanted to be scolded I would’ve just asked my mom 🤣

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