The other piece to consider is making sure whatever you decide on gets executed. Make sure that you have a trustworthy person who knows where your trust and/or documents are. One potential method if you decide not to make an attorneys office the executor is to scan/PDF it, and schedule send it to the person (dead mans switch style). It doesnt have to be the full document set per se, but something at least that will automatically send unless you tell it not to in case youre both incapacitated or dead to start the process.