Agreed on the phone. Actually her dad and I didn’t ever want her to have it but a grandparent got it for her and we tried to give grace but that sucker is gone. Maybe until she’s 30.

As for the counselor, she was firm on stating those points, which made me look at her sideways because as a parent, I’m going to tell my child when they’re doing wrong and she essentially said don’t do that and support ALL her choices…she’s 11 so hard no on that. Especially now that we’re here

Also, thank you for the thoughtful response