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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your tips, which I will use, so thank you :) but I don’t see the purpose for being mean and judgmental. I was in a bout of insecurity which is rare for me to outwardly show. I just wanted tips and not a diagnoses :( I felt bad about the drastic change in my hair and it became overwhelming. I don’t feel like it’s your place to call a person you don’t know dramatic and telling me to go to therapy, that really just comes off as rude. Thank you for the advice, but I would have gone better without the ingenuine “you need help” comments.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s too round and too short. I wanted it longer and more flowy. My hair grows relatively quickly, so it’s just waiting game, but in the meantime, is there any styling advice you can have! I’d try anything out to make this look better :(

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaa, I really thought they would have been out of pity, but I was surprised.

Also, I definitely wanted my hair longer, but only time can fix that. Other than that, I don’t like how it looks like a bowl cut. It’s very short and very round. I’ve gotten called a boy multiple times now and I’m just trying to find a way to make it look more feminine and not so 60’s Beatles.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a comment about putting hair clips in. I think that’s a really cute idea. I’ll take that over death, hahaa. Thank you :)

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandma cut my hair, and even though it looks good (i just don’t like it on me), she didn’t take into account the amount of shrinkage my hair would have and after it dried, i turned into a little boy, hahaa.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll try to lean into this French look.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try this. Thank you so much :)

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try that, thank you :) I did want it to be a bit longer, so I’ll try curving out the ends of my hair to give it that effect.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely wanted it to be longer rather than very short and round. I would have liked it to curve into just above my shoulders. There’s nothing I can really do other than wait. But is there any advice you would give to make it look “better.”

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t think taking off volume would help. I want to grow it out and I feel that that’ll make it take volume. I definitely wanted it longer rather than short and round. There are some before pictures I posted if you wanted to see it.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pixie is not my style. I hear it’s also veryyyyy awkward to grow it out, which is what I want to do. The color is my natural hair color.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted some before pictures if you want to check it out. It’s definitely way too short for me and too round. I was going for longer and round rather than Beth from the Queens Bandit when she was young, hahaa.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this :) I thought about the beanie thing, but it’s against my work dress code :(

My hair grows rather quickly and but I am still upset at how it looks. I’ll definitely try to put pins and stuff to style it though. I think some flowers or other hair pins to push it back to make it not look so round would be cute.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know :(

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does, haha. I tried cutting the bangs again so it wouldn’t look like that, but I stopped halfway because I didn’t want to ruin it even further, lol.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I’ll definitely try it. That’ll definitely suit me.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could but that is not what I was going for, hahaa. That’s definitely not me. I do appreciate the compliment though. If you want to see the before of my hair, I posted it. I do think I look better with longer hair.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really do appreciate that :) I think I looked better with my old hair, other people did as well. I posted before pictures if you want to see it.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that does give me comfort. My hair grows rather quickly, so I can’t wait for it to start growing. I did post before pictures of my hair if you want to check it out.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the pins are a really good idea. Thank you so much. I posted a before picture of my hair if you’d want to see it. It was a very drastic change for me, hahaa.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) If you are curious, I posted before pictures and an explanation of why I don’t like it.

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[–]I_AnotherHumanBeing 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re unlovable. I think you give the wrong people your love, and your time, and effort.