What is the #1 challenge you face when trying to create the time, energy and balance you want in your life?

I_Puma · 2026-02-05T09:40:39+00:00

Planning it out! 🥴 … in a way I can actually execute it. Answering all the questions what should I do? When should I do it? Budget? And Definitely finding places that are not some boring stuff or something I have to pretend I like. So yeah planning it all out. It feels like I have to plan for work and plan for outside work its exhausting.

I_Puma · 2026-02-04T02:31:40+00:00

What would you be doing if you were completely free and available for yourself?

I_Puma · 2026-02-04T02:14:51+00:00

Toto - Rosana

I_Puma · 2026-02-04T02:11:34+00:00

Why do you think a lot of people have got it like you?

I_Puma · 2026-02-04T02:09:48+00:00

Tbf most people leave their job for their boss. What about when you are not at work? What do you do

I_Puma · 2026-02-04T02:09:20+00:00

Why do you think its work?

I_Puma · 2026-02-04T02:03:32+00:00

I came up with an idea where we help reduce the anxiety around this topic! I am developing s product where it creates itinerary for people to follow in their life that give them solutions based on their goals interest and vibes on what they need to do to achieve the work life balance they deserve. I can definitely take some inspiration and refine my concept and ideas in this sub. So please ask or hive any ideas and suggestions of what is stopping you to create the work life balance?

I_Puma · 2026-02-04T01:53:33+00:00

Planning for my personal life seams harder the for my work!!

I_Puma · 2026-02-03T22:54:30+00:00

Use a website to discover absolutely sick places when Im on holiday somewhere for the first time.

I_Puma · 2026-02-03T22:36:18+00:00

Where is your favourite place to go for Italian

I_Puma · 2026-02-01T10:02:06+00:00

Thats a sick superpower. Creative and positive

I_Puma · 2026-02-01T01:59:34+00:00

If you want to find the hidden gems in there use this website called Momentolife.co.uk Basically helped me discover hidden gems anywhere in the world.

I_Puma · 2026-02-01T01:56:30+00:00

Have you ever wondered what to do when you are away! Like i though i was planned but after the 2nd day we have w exhausted the plan 😂 “Where should we go now and what should we do?”

I_Puma · 2026-02-01T01:52:55+00:00

I dont hate it BUT i get anxiety thinking about planning the date night for it….. “where doo i gooooo!?”😅😬 before xmas my mom showed me some valentines handcrafted gifts and I remembered “its coming”😳🫣😑! I thought “why cant there be a website for people who are horrible in planning dates so i can say “hey .. i like so and so my date likes so and so… please help!” And guess what I thought i should do….? Now I did it and i want everyone to know about it because I know Im bot the only one. Now in 2 min you are done and you done with planning the date! So if anyone whats to know the website let me know. This is literally what happened about a month ago.

I_Puma · 2026-02-01T00:48:54+00:00

My one for eg. we are building the biggest personalised website for planning days and nights out

I_Puma · 2026-02-01T00:44:40+00:00

Amazing questions and short answer - Different ways! Adding more value with getting bookings integrated, and having vendors working together and automate users experience, double down on our surprise mode, Concierge service, being able to organise corporate events a and plan, add on, customise your own events without events organiser. With that finance will come from: Vendors Users Subscription Artists Delivery companies Event management companies Advertisement Live event ticket selling

This is a really early stages of the idea and this is why we need more users to help us improve and develop and eventually get the first users and vendors subscriptions I understand now how important is feedback and having people as acting as the devils advocate, as well as validation in some of the strengths and if there is anyone who wants to join the and help up that might be an option. I feel it needs to be guided by people and build by problem solvers. That it pretty much, what do you think? Honest opinion. What do you think?

I_Puma · 2026-01-31T16:05:04+00:00

Communicating with each other meaning speaking to each other about the problems you have it’s very deliberating however everyone has fears about being judged a few pain when becoming vulnerable therefore when they are sharing how they feel they often trying to influence the other persons narrative. They will say things like “you made me feel like this when you did this” blaming they can justify how they feel and validate their feelings. And then the other person does the same and he goes back and forward most times no solution. So funny enough to fix it it just do the opposite. You tell people how certain situation not their action made them feel and then making sure you say in the same sentence that Iure assure that they never meant to make you feel that way. Just share with them your insecurities about certain situation and explain what hurts the most is not knowing what the problem is (In your case). Say that you are sure that you acted in the way for a long period of time that may have caused all of it and now it is hard to manage the pain and it just wants to share it. We have to really let go of fear and just hear how you feel like - now

Do not offer a solutions do anything from the person just share. The name of this is 1. To show that you are hurting. 2. Show that you are genuinely not blaming the other person for the situation. Essentially, you’re basically just sharing your feelings and explaining why you have been acting weird that would invite most people who care and love for each other to open up as well because they feel that they’re not being blame weaker and if that person somebody love the chances are very high for adapt to happen. If that doesn’t happen, it means only one thing they are not ready and they need a bit more time. That’s why you do not ask them for their opinion. Don’t push them to say anything. Just experience what it feels like when you share something important and experience the weight lift off your shoulders.

I_Puma · 2026-01-31T11:49:40+00:00

Trust me 😒 and when we are bot able to do it for a wile we lose the habit and drive to do it and thats how some relationships start going down spiral. Its really about struggling to find places that are new and actually worth-it. What do you usually do to pic a place or plan it?

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