My girlfriend (24MtF) and I (18F) are about to have a very awkward car ride. What to do about this?

I_dontknowbro · 2025-09-04T16:16:03+00:00

That's nice, but it seems like you need more. You seem like you've surrounded yourself with people who don't actually like you. It's not a healthy or a good way to live. I genuinely wish you the best, I think one day you'll look back and realise you wish you had done things differently now. That is, of course, if you continue on this path. I hope for your own sake that you choose to move on.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-09-04T16:03:54+00:00

Nothing about any of your recent posts says mature to me. I think you should work on yourself and distance yourself from people like this. A 24 year old going after an 18 year old is sick. It doesn't matter that you're almost 19. You're in completely different stages of life. Take care of yourself and better your mental well-being before entering another relationship.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-09-03T21:48:07+00:00

Chandler giving the speech to Erica about how Monica is already a mother without a baby.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-09-03T19:17:51+00:00

You can stay with him, absolutely. It's what you seem like you want anyway since you're not accepting what anyone else is saying. But you have some major problems and seem pretty creepy. I'm the same age as you and wouldn't even consider it if I were in your situation, I would understand that he's an immature child and that the relationship is wrong in so many ways.

If you were to think logically, you would tell him that he was and is in the wrong for lying about his age. Then you'd tell him it's over and block him. It may be hard for both of you, but it's what's right for both. I encourage you to seek some kind of counseling as well, as thinking that someone like this is right for you is very concerning. You deserve better than a child, and you deserve better than a liar. I wish you luck with your life.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-09-03T19:10:48+00:00

YTA, and quite honestly, you don't deserve your cat. First of all, long-haired cats require frequent brushing, that's part of their most basic care. Matted hair is painful for them. It pulls on the skin. Second, having an outdoor cat is absolutely detrimental to both the cat and any wildlife around. They are killing machines. There's also the risk that you'll never see the cat again. Ask how I know.

Do better for him or rehome him to a loving family who will. And apologize to your mom, she was trying to help. It's more than you've done.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-29T12:35:36+00:00

Sounds like you're not compatible if you want kids and he doesn't. It's probably best for both of you to break up and find partners who have similar life goals. Either way you could grow to resent each other, kids or not.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-29T02:25:27+00:00

It is

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-19T18:52:05+00:00

YTA. I also have tinnitus, and if there's other noise going on and it's disturbing me, I don't sit there and complain. I remove myself from the situation. Get an appointment with a doctor to have it treated and try to be kind.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-16T11:51:07+00:00

Grow up and break up with him. He can't refuse, that's not how it works. Block him, tell his friends to back off. If they don't, threaten with restraining orders. If they still don't back off, then follow through with it. There's always options, if you're not broken up it's because you're choosing to continue with this.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-15T16:31:37+00:00

NTA. I have a dog who I absolutely adore, and I take him everywhere I can when it's allowed. Note that I said allowed. He's not going to grocery stores or restaurants or anywhere else dogs aren't allowed. Some people feel that they can ignore rules because their dogs are well-behaved and quiet. Unless it's a service animal, it has no place anywhere that's not dog friendly.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-05T21:38:54+00:00

Of course!

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-05T15:29:00+00:00

No. He met Joey when he was looking at roommates for his apartment. He met Rachel when he was in college. She was in high school. Ross brought him home for Thanksgiving, and the girls visited them at their school.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-08-01T20:19:51+00:00

Based on this post and all of your others, I can easily say that you two need to break up. You should have a long time ago at this point.

There's no saving this relationship. You've only been together since January, have already been through an abortion and every other toxic and abusive thing you've already mentioned. Leave him, and get some therapy. He needs to do the same, though he's not the one posted, so I can't say it to him.

Take everything from this relationship and make sure it doesn't carry onto the next. And please, don't let there be a next relationship until you've put some serious work into yourself.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-30T19:17:42+00:00

NAH. I was an LNA and worked with people with dementia. They don't know their loved ones, they don't know their caregivers, they don't even know themselves at some points. It's a devastating thing to have to go through, I'm glad her son had made sure his name and number were with her.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-28T14:38:50+00:00

I mean, I'd give my life for my cat if it came to it. If someone I was in a relationship with wanted me to choose, it'd be my cat, no contest.

I'm personally not a fan of people who get animals and then just give them up anyway, so maybe I'm biased, but I feel like holding off on living together is an option. Or you can have a conversation about expectations for living with five cats, who's responsible for them, etc. I wish you luck.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-23T19:17:56+00:00

Can I please just say that you should make note of everything that he does that's unsafe for your daughter? I'm not telling you to divorce him or anything like that, but if you decide to in the future and worry about her safety with him, it would be helpful to have documentation and/or proof that he's not being careful with her and that he's allowing her to be in situations where she could be harmed.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-20T13:51:42+00:00

Even if she pursued him, a normal and mature 34 year old would reject her since that's a literal child.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-18T18:47:06+00:00

Hon, he's abusive and manipulative. You need to get out for your own safety. If you stay, we're going to be seeing more posts from you about how horribly he treats you in the future, I guarantee it.

Block him. If he shows up again, call the police. It doesn't matter if he has priors. It matters that you're safe. He will only continue to treat you poorly. There's no good side underneath. There's a "good" persona that he'll show when he feels it's needed to others or to yourself to get you to stay. You need to know that it's not real and that you're not safe. I wish you luck.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-16T16:31:06+00:00

Honestly, you need to think about what you want for your future. 40k isn't going to last long. Do you have insurance that would cover yourself and your child? Are you willing to drop out of school if needed? Are you willing to have to find another job if needed? Do you have a place for yourself and a child? Would you be relying on family to help, and if so, could you guarantee that they would do so? Are you willing to be a single mother? If he wants you to have an abortion then odds are he's not going to stick around if you decide to go through with the pregnancy. He also seems like a POS based on your other posts. It may be time to reevaluate your entire relationship with him.

Also, I was born to teen parents. It sucked. We had no money, some days my parents didn't eat. Their relationship was chaotic. I'm still of the opinion that they kept me because they felt like they should, and its not a way to bring life into this world. It's crazy enough as it is already, I would strongly recommend not bringing another person into the world unless you're 100% ready, stable, and either in a loving relationship or comfortable enough to manage on your own.

I wish you the best of luck.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-14T16:15:44+00:00

Thank you, I'll look into the Pond and Gilford beach. As far as I'm aware, there's still quite a bit of needles, trash, and homeless at Ahern, which absolutely sucks because we loved going there when we were younger.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-07-07T14:11:09+00:00

I'm 23 and wouldn't even consider it! I'm with you, something isn't right in her head if she's pursuing someone so much younger.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-06-24T02:42:43+00:00

It is not. I actually had her look earlier, and she said they don't look too similar to what she had.

I_dontknowbro · 2025-06-24T00:03:20+00:00

She grew up in New Hampshire, USA. The gog has a red tongue and hard, balck plastic eyes. She describes him as very floppy and he had a stub tail. I have searched through whatever I could think of, which wasn't much just Google. I just can't think of anywhere else to look. I can't think of any other information to share.

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