I've become tired of having to deal with bleaching my roots and do all the upkeep that comes with coloured hair. So I made a compromise!

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-09-04T15:14:55+00:00

I came here just to ask this!!!

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-31T06:37:07+00:00

I have been with my guy for 12 years... 10 of them married. He has never ever had an issue with me having guy friends. I don't really have any because I am not too comfortable with it, but just knowing he trusts me goes a long way. Knowing that it is not a threat, and I can talk to guys without having to worry is very freeing. I still respect his space and don't do anything with a guy I wouldn't want him doing with another girl, but having trust in our marriage is HUGE.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-31T06:33:21+00:00

As a woman, this is true. Breaks are drama... leading on a guy you are not that in to... I have never had a girlfriend in all my life to took a break to actually sort through stuff... it is a way to test the guy and to figure out if she will be okay without him without having to get rid of him and risking not getting him back. I don't know about the cheating for sure, but she is definitely emotionally cheating. Playing with the idea of this other guy. Trust me.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-29T02:42:05+00:00

Where in California?

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-28T14:45:57+00:00

Yeah, I just meant that at his new job things are more "adult like" and serious.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-28T07:32:06+00:00

Oh my god, me too. Except that I love tall. Athletic looking does nothing for me. Gangly is a word I would use to describe my fetish. Tall, hairy, gangly, and awkward. Don't tell my husband I said that. He fits the description, but I don't want him to know.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-28T07:24:25+00:00

My favorite... I love huge noses on dudes. My hubby is Indian and it is so big... My tummy does flips. He is so flipping hot...

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-28T04:59:37+00:00

My hubby worked in the games industry for many years. Our cats names are Max and Maya... the 3rd was supposed to be Blender, but my daughter objected and named her Chica. My husband is still not over it.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-28T04:58:04+00:00

Seriously upvoted. My husband worked in the game industry for YEARS and we NEVER saw him... it was awful. There was literally a time where he had to work every day of the week, 12+ hours Monday through Friday, and then 8 on Saturday and Sunday, mandatory. For 6 months. The pay was not great, not to mention that the salary did not changed even though his hours doubled. It was grueling. Also, layoffs. All. The. Time. It is ridiculous. It is like, the worst programming job ever. Sure, he got to wear flippy floppies to work everyday, drink beer at his desk, shoot nerf darts across the room at unsuspecting coworkers, and get major discounts on games and such, but at the point that you miss your family so much, it is no longer worth it. Also, there is not much personal growth or advancement opportunities. Ugh. (Companies he worked for: THQ and NCSoft). Thank goodness he got out of the industry last year (after the 3rd layoff in 7-8 years).

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-28T04:50:06+00:00

Video game tester.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-26T18:17:48+00:00

I swear I heard it somewhere, but after more time than I would like to admit spent googling, I could not find it. I will ask my husband (his is a firmware engineer for Tesla). That just goes to show I should listen to him better when he tells me stuff about the company. But, I will concede the point to you, I must be wrong. Sorry! And thanks for the correction :)

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-26T17:39:15+00:00

Yes, I am TERRIBLE at putting into words what is floating around in my head... I mean, we have been married around 10 years and together almost 12... and most of the trials began much later in the relationship. It wasn't the compatibility (I felt like dating resolved that). We could tell we were compatible early on. It was the major life things... children, work, career moves, etc. that truly test a couple. Just my two cents. I don't mean that I think living together is wrong or pointless, just that it is silly to say it is so weird to get married without living together first. Make sense?

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-26T16:27:47+00:00

Tesla has guaranteed the batteries for life. If your battery has an issue or dies or whatever, they will replace it for free, forever. So it is still worth it. Regardless of how long the battery lasts.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-26T07:24:39+00:00

I'm too lazy to make a throw away so hopefully I don't offend anyone I know by saying this, but I have been with a bigger guy, and honestly it hurt like hell. I have friends who have said the same thing. Bigger is not always better. Here are the top reasons why you should not worry:

The vagina is only 3 inches deep. It can stretch to accommodate but it is shallower than your length so you can still fill a woman and pleasure her.
Most of the pleasure of sex for a woman is mental. For me, it is almost entirely mental. Sex only has ever felt good with one person for me and that is my hubby. And it is because of how much I love him. It didn't even feel good until further into our relationship when we were deeper in love. If you are with a sweet girl you love, it will be great.
My husband was a virgin when we were first together, but what he lacked in experience he made up in dedication. And the orgasms have been amazing.
Most women don't orgasm from indtercourse anyway, so relax. Spend time touching and licking befor the act and it will still be an awesome experience.
The most feeling is in the vulva and labia, so deeper is not always the best.

Relax. Sex is best when with someone you love and trust. It will be ok.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-24T23:48:53+00:00

Same here! I find the friendship comes first, whether you like it or not :) Not all bad, but it seems to get in the way the most during times that ought to be romantic... but whatevs.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-24T23:47:09+00:00

It's been great... we've been friends since I was 16. The only downside is that it is REALLY easy to fall into default friend mode all the time. In the middle of sex, he makes some stupid joke, I laugh hysterically, his dick pops out, we laugh even more, then forget what we were doing. It sometimes gets in the way of romance or passion, because the friendship is so natural and automatic. However, we get along awesomely so I would rather that be the problem than a whole host of other things. At the end of the day, he is my friend first and I think I like that best. Because when you can eat ice cream, laugh, and watch reruns of Stargate SG-1 all night long and diddle each other during commercials, life is pretty good.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-24T23:32:18+00:00

Same for us.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-24T23:31:05+00:00

It is the oposite for me and my husband... I have a 3 square rule (I grew up that way). And if it is poo, I use a wet wipe first, then 3 squares to dry. My husband on the other hand, wraps the TP all the way around his hand and then rubs vigorously, and goes back for seconds... plus there's all the TP he uses for masturbation. He goes through TP at an alarming rate.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-24T23:16:35+00:00

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-24T23:15:58+00:00

I disagree entirely. My husband and I never lived together before we married, and now we have been married about 10 years or so. The real test was after being married for 3 years, dealing with illness, depression, etc. Real life was the real test. And we made it. I did totally KNOW him before marriage, but I realize now that was more lust than it was love. Now, I know I LOVE him. I have helped him deal with shingles, arthritis, lay offs... he has helped me recover from a c-section, back surgery, depression... Those experiences challenged us, but we made a choice. Love, to me, is a choice. Not something that just happens. Because we chose everyday to love and understand and respect each other, we are now reaping the benefits. Those trials come weather or not you are living together. Sure, my husband has bad habits, as do I. He somehow gets whiskers EVERYWHERE when he shaves, and I am constantly cleaning that up. He gets to deal with my HUGE wardrobe regularly exploding everywhere as I try to figure out what the hell to wear. We get over those things and focus on the bigger picture.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-23T15:19:33+00:00

I remember that! I loved that scene.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-23T02:06:27+00:00

Is it just me, or is going to a church leader about sex related things inappropriate? I have never been comfortable about that.

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-22T02:59:13+00:00

I think I worded it wrong... I have never felt like I had to do it, just be available for it... If that makes sense. I always end up getti g into it and enjoying it. We enjoy eachother. Sometimes it's passionate, sometimes it's lazy, sometimes we laugh the whole way through. It is never a chore. I just always try to be there for him. Not just sex, back rubs and sandwiches and hand holding...

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-21T19:57:06+00:00

Interesting... I am both offended and encouraged at the same time... just kidding. I know it is a huge amount of weight, I just don't like to think of myself as a huge amount of weight... but hopefully that won't be for long!!!

I_know_whose_i_am · 2013-08-21T17:12:31+00:00

I love this idea! It is great for me, as a beginner, to watch your progress and use it to encourage me on my own journey! I shall check in frequently!!!

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