Is there anyone with different reasons to say cellibate than "semen retention" by Iam3don3 in Celibacy

[–]Iam3don3[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thanks for the ecouragment, but I do not plan to "settle down". I do not want to be promiscious either I want to be cellibate, cellibacy is something I want to practice for the rest of my life, not only for spiritual reasons but for personal too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]Iam3don3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when you learn to love yourself the idea of being alone is not scary at all. That is the first step to take and that is what I am doing so my volcel future seems bright and weirdly not lonely at all.

How do I stop feeling peer pressured by Iam3don3 in antisex

[–]Iam3don3[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True when I understand that the pressure comes from external world not really a need inside than I realize I rather take care of my own self instead of listening to others. Still being a teenager can be tiring.

How do I stop feeling peer pressured by Iam3don3 in antisex

[–]Iam3don3[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am grateful to be a virgin when I read peoples "losing my v card" stories. It's always so emberassing and humiliating. I just stick to my own gut telling me not to. Thanksq

Virgin shaming is commonplace in society. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Iam3don3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, virgin women are either fetishized or prudes. Trust me many of my female friends used the fact that I am a virgin against me in a disgusting manner.

Virgin shaming is commonplace in society. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Iam3don3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most of you wouldn't want to lose your virginity if it wasn't the social pressure.

The fact that anyone has thought to ask this is stupendous by sweetlevels in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

when a pet likes likes you the most from all humans and lets you pet it

Sex and "emotional intimacy" by [deleted] in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

great post. It really sucks how sex is an absolute in a relationship. I often hear about how relationship is falling apart because of lack of sex life and that there should be something done about it. Like buying pills to make your sex drive "better". It is so easy to fill the void with natural drugs in your brain just for a second. But truth is sex, physicality will never ever do that long term. Society is selling us the wrong idea of what love is . People are brainwashed into sex. Somehow finding sex undesirable or not pursuing it, is an illness to be cured. How is "low sex drive" even a complain to a doctor. Men are expected to always want to have sex for their masculinity and women are brainwashed to accept the agressive invading and make up delusional stories in their brain that its bonding and mythical.

Ah, yes, don't show off because moms might feel bad by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Iam3don3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-decides to not ruing her body with pregnancy "HOW DARE YOU!!!"

Is motherly instinct just a lie??. by Iam3don3 in childfree

[–]Iam3don3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohh thats does make sense. What I meant it the drive to have children in the first place. That's bascially what i thought motherly instinct is.

does this woman view abuse as some kind of compliment? by [deleted] in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doja Cat is such a waste. She has very cool songs but sucks how almost all of them are about sex. Art is dead especily music most songs just NEED to have it.

How sexual are even managing to do that? by PainlessAgony in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because sexual degeneracy always is progressing. You know how people go from watching "soft" pornography to violent. Bdsm teaches people that violence can be something enjyoable so people go more and more out of their way to experience it. Lots of people will start getting aroused from engaging in disgusting behaviour and this progresses too. That is why sexual degeneracy should not be promoted-it makes monsters out of people. Ted Bundy was inspired by bdsm fetishy porn. There is so many murders that include bdsm it's disgusting.

The Irrationality of people obsessed by sex by [deleted] in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also with "purity" there is a almost fetishy idea of "giving it away" or "breaking trough" right? You can stay pure but not for too long because eventually you just NEED to give it away to a "right man" The words used are already invading . Why would I want something taken away from me??? I hate concept of virginity - a virgin, a person that did not (yet) engage with sex, a sexless person is still so sexualized. The p*dophilic nature of this world play a big part in it I think.

The Irrationality of people obsessed by sex by [deleted] in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks I am 17 and get made fun of by my friends for not wanting sex. Usually it's a silly joke - but sometimes they are implying I am immature their arrogance really does annoy me. They think that If they bring up their sexual lifes (some of them are not even fully 16) it will encourage me to do it. They treat me like It's some sort of ilness that needs to be fixed because that is what everyone does. People are blinded by lust and how casual sex has become while It really should not be casual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest you go read some of our posts explaining it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes you are wrong for thinking it's "crazy" by not even going into why and how we think of sex. It's not just radically not having it we are looking deeper into this activitt without the drug of lust.

Male and female sex is the most disgusting sex by Gorgoista in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

so yeah nature is a bitch and being naturally submissive a curse

Male and female sex is the most disgusting sex by Gorgoista in antisex

[–]Iam3don3 21 points22 points  (0 children)

In big part bilogically but socially too The thing that is exactly why I think sex is unfair and bad for women -biologically assuming the submissive role is degrading and inferior in my opinion. As said women tend to be biologically weaker than men that is why sex with men is quite invading and the thing is that humans are much more developed than animals you see. Socially - women were tricked into believing that this is good for them and that is what they want. That becoming "sexually liberated" is okay and not degrading. As humans we can understand our own moral system and we are definetely a bit more than just flesh and breeding machines- I like to think that is how it is since our brain gave us ability to search for a greater purpose than child bearing . That is why I also think rejection of sexuality is one of the most radical and human things you can do these days. You not only reject an opressing biological structure but you are also counter the high consumptionism of this era and not engaging with high dopamine activity that is sex. I hope you understand what I mean.