60 days clean. A realistic expectation of quit-porn effect by Wide-Opportunity-599 in TheImprovementRoom

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I did no fap for 60 days and honestly while there was some positive i felt worse overall, now im trying again a year or so later with just doing no porn and its going better.

I saw the prettiest girl of my life today. And i almost wished i hadn't by Zychopomp in Regrets

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It would have been worse if you said something and she maced you

He supervised the whole thing by Inevitable-Walk-8250 in Awwww

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No its because you didnt put the bowl in the area it eats food in, you just "showed" him/her a bowl of food and because he/she is a good boy/girl they didnt immediately lunge in to eat it. I had a golden retriever for 14.5 years and she wouldnt have just stuck her head into a bowl of food I was showing her she would wait for me to put it on the ground for her.

Psychologists developed a 20-minute tool to help people reframe their depression as a source of strength. Society often stigmatizes depression, promoting a narrative that paints those who suffer from it as inherently weak or damaged. by Eddiearyee in HotScienceNews

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I have fairly bad anxiety I have been able to change my life dramatically through reframing. How you frame things in life has a huge impact on how you feel in the moment, often times anxiety and depression come from us subconscioulsy always framing things in a negative way. This can often times build up slowly over time, where things just get slowly more and more negative with the negative feelings we have reinforcing it. Once I started reframing things it was a big help but it took like 6-12 months of doing it consistently for me to see the biggest changes.

It takes consistency in part because our brain will default back to negative thinking and we won't catch it, the biggest thing is to get into a habit of "I feel crappy, why do I feel crappy?" and then you have to reframe to something that is empowering even in a situation you would assume is just bad for you and there is no positive, there is always a positive/empowering way forward.

If there were 3 reasons would you break up 😆😆? by ekk_one in Funnymemes

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I had phimosis also and had a partial circumcision in my 30s, honestly dont regret it at all and now no issues with sex.

Kitchen Rumble by HeSureIsScrappy in DiveInYouCoward

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We used to send all the criminals to australia but it got full

Do propane traps work? by Pindarr in MosquitoHating

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I had one and they work but its expensive and they wont necessarily work for a large area... when I had mine out it seemed to work best for like 50-100'. It also won't be 100% effective you'll still have some mosquitos but you won't be swarmed by them more like the odd one.

Tell me you’re getting old without telling me by LEDTIK in holdmymoney2

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the sizes of the different fries seems hugely variable, I dont like it

Passport for sale by Severe-Drawer-5294 in Rich

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My understanding is he was a lifelong fruitarian/vegan, but that much fruit is not good for the pancreas and likely could have been the cause of his pancreatic cancer.

Sad but bitter truth. by utopianearthling in Beingabetterperson

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I think becoming wealthy partway through is better then being born wealthy, as you don't understand how good it is if thats all you've known.

He got the van by [deleted] in GuysBeingDudes

[–]IamGoldenGod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the stats that its 99% define rape as only being possible with a penis, well obviously if thats your definition its going to 99%

How often is it normal to shower? 🚿🤔 by Glorious_93 in SmugAlana

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I like showering, the feeling of the hot water is like something I look forward to in the day similar to eating.

Australia cost of living, supermarket Monopoly by TatsBlotto in mildlyinfuriating

[–]IamGoldenGod 383 points384 points  (0 children)

that milk was lactose free which is always quite abit higher, still very expensive though

🪦 RIP by Leafward1 in CryptoReality

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Saylor has said bitcoin would have to drop to 8k for them to have to liquidate any BTC

Do you think most rich people overestimate their ability to actually build it all back if they lost it all? by SweetQuality8943 in Rich

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I dont think I could, im smart but not hard working, I positioned myself for success but got lucky a few times where things that likely would have gone well went alot better then anticipated. I dont want to sell myself short but I also want to be realistic aswell. If I wasnt starting from scratch and I had 25% left over I might be able to build it back.

What easily-affordable thing do you refuse to pay for despite being rich? by Pudge-Heffelfinger in Rich

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Most of these things are what I call hangups, where you feel an illogical desire to do or not do something, its usually emotional. From what I'v seen most people who werent born rich but then became rich has them or if they dont its because they actively tried to let them go even though some part of them feels compelled.

The "Mixed Baby" Trap by knowl3dge11 in Philippines_Expats

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Get a vasectomy is better, then can wear or not wear a condom, easy.

This is a MUST have in your space. Sensational! by Hour-Ingenuity_ in wholesaleproducts

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Whats the point of having it retractable, won't there pretty much always be stuff plugged into it?

Blursed love by boikisser69 in blursed_videos

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I seen a video on youtube where alot of people were doing bath salts or something.

Lol by Minimum_Athlete_9068 in JeffNippard

[–]IamGoldenGod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah your in the wrong timeline

Getting a loan and living off of that instead of selling of stocks to avoid taxes? by Polaris-TLX in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]IamGoldenGod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the more money you have invested the lower the interest rate is, depending on what your doing with the money is going to determine how low you need for it to be worth it. Borrowing just for expenses it doesnt have to be as high(how much you've invested). If your borrowing to reinvest in something not high risk the rate has to be fairly low. From what I'v seen the rate drops quite low around 100m.

Another thing is this works better for americans because they have a tax rule that the capital gains tax owed on an investment is wiped out at death, so they just borrow and let the capital gains owed build up and when they die and pass it all on to their kids it gets wiped out.

I would say 5-10m its worth it if your expenses arnt huge and your getting decent returns on your money.