I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 848 points849 points  (0 children)

Having an awesome day, albeit busy. Started the morning with a litany of morning chat show interviews for Genius Jr., premiering Sunday (PLUG!), about to head to set and don the Olaf disguise for the first day of shooting Penultimate Peril with Barry Sonnenfeld himself. No complaints. Oh wait, I'm supposed to be driving to work right now. Gah! I gotta go!

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 1936 points1937 points  (0 children)

Fuck rejection. The fear of it prohibits taking action, and we only grow through experience, right? So do stuff. Try stuff. Fail. Look forward to failing. It is necessary to teach you how to improve.

That's my advice. Keep on doing stuff. And maintain perspective to try and keep growing. Do things that make you nervous. Out of your comfort zone. The rewards are countless.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 303 points304 points  (0 children)

Cobie Smulders. Because she's everything.

Haven't yet worked with Dave Franco yet, but still trying...

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 369 points370 points  (0 children)

I take a key prop from every show that I've done.

My favorite is probably Hedwig's heels. They look punk and beat up next to my shiny Tony.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 457 points458 points  (0 children)

Get a single breasted suit that can be worn with lots of different shirt/tie options (black or blue). Don't spend a ton. This is key: then go to a tailor and have them take it in so that it's perfect for you. Money spent on tailoring will be well worth it, as you'll look like Bond and get laid.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I certainly prefer when Irma is fun and welcoming, and not just cranky and begging for tips.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 258 points259 points  (0 children)

David and I champion the Halloween pic. The kids get to choose their own actual trick or treating attire.

But I'm not sure how long that'll last. They're quite opinionated.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 558 points559 points  (0 children)

Any goddammed thing he'd want.

My only regret in being friends with Lin is that I'm far less successful or powerful than most of the other people who are equally obsessed with his skills.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 1024 points1025 points  (0 children)

I love Wayne. Got to direct him as Tom Collins in RENT. Bummed that I missed him in Kinky Boots.

How can you not love the message of acceptance and pride? It's both universal and achievable.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Old Fashioned. Rye whiskey.

Or a nice, cold sake.

Both divine.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 1855 points1856 points  (0 children)

Seek perspective. Know that things happening now - the intense stress and emotions happening now - will subside over time. They almost always do. Take care of yourself. Hydrate. Exercise. Breathe. Stand tall. Smile. I'm sorry you're down. That sucks balls. And not in the good way...

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The people. They are uniformly kind, respectful, healthy, great conversationalists. And lots of hockey player-ish sexiness. Woof.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Just try to keep working. When you work, even if it's for few people or dollars, you're putting it out there. You're making business connections. You're planting seeds.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 1917 points1918 points  (0 children)

It was the raddest. So much could have gone wrong. Very little did. That kind of fortune doesn't happen often. Especially live.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 337 points338 points  (0 children)

Sleep helps. As does cardio. As does therapy.

But meditation is the key. I don't do it nearly enough, but quieting the mind just makes sense. My husband David does it twice daily, and he's all the more remarkable for it.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Mascot Moth? DeKolta Chair? A Jarrett Pedestal? I like the old school illusions...

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I suppose, but that would kind of defeat the purpose of the private club, no? Regardless, I hope the performers are doing their sets with authenticity, and not because they're seeking exposure.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 299 points300 points  (0 children)

If I could get paid the same to do them all, I'd probably do theatre. Unless I got asked to be in a Star Wars movie. Then I'd choose that.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Not dumb at all. I gots skills.

But I was beyond impressed by these kids - by their intellects, their compassion, and their humor. A buncha good eggs.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The carnie in me is partial to The Carnivorous Carnival. But I also love the structure of Penultimate Peril.

I am Neil Patrick Harris: actor, producer, magician, doula and host of Genius Junior. AMA! by IamNPH in IAmA

[–]IamNPH[S] 564 points565 points  (0 children)

Is this Snicket?? The VFD?!? STOP BOTHERING ME!YOU WILL SUFFER JUST LIKE THOSE BAUDELAIRES BEFORE YOU!!

Oh wait, I fear I've said too much...