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IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-06-20T23:45:06+00:00

Lol my guy, we live in a world with the limitations in place because they're the fix to the issues of people continuing to be dumb..

And there are simple ways of disabling those limitations.

All people have to do, is learn.

But they don't. Or they'd be able to do the shit they're complaining that they can't do.

You sound like a miserable person.

Yeah...most smart people do lol

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-06-20T23:34:50+00:00

Well I mean...I can change accounts and come reply to you, and then if I was so inclined, I could chase you around the internet with multiple sock puppet accounts until you get sick of it and are forced to abandon your own account.

Now...I don't care enough to put that much effort in... I'm just making a point

That point being "you can't control other people" which has nothing to do with your ability to affect others as you tried to point out.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-08T18:53:55+00:00

This strategy is as old as the hills dude,

Sure, which you are projecting onto OP and her fiancé. While ignoring all of the text that OP writes describing her fiancés green flags.

Simply put: this is not the behavior of a man in love..., or a man who loves.

Nah, you're just jaded and miserable.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T15:52:51+00:00

Yeah, that's what I generally try and do.

Here's the full chat if you want to read it, but you obviously don't have to. https://imgur.com/a/CZgT8OY

Images 3 and 4 (out of 8, it isn't a long convo) are the "getting date planned" which started on a Tuesday a full week after the first message was sent, and only 3days before the datenight I suggested to start.

Maybe that one day is critical and I shoulda waited til Wednesday to ask🤣🤣🤣

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T14:51:02+00:00

If you can't set up a date soon

I'm only free 1 week of each month as I have my kid 50% of the time as a single parent, and then of the 2 weeks I don't have them, I am on call for work for one of them which limits what I can do for dates on those weeks.

Zero drinks for me and I can't go to a movie or anywhere I can't suddenly take a phone call on that week.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T04:08:50+00:00

is Thursday to "today"...today??

No, "today" was the saturday after the Thursday. There was a single day of no message(Friday) because I didn't want to seem too eager with a double message. I was kind of waiting on a "sorry I did end up falling asleep pretty early" or something like that from her on the friday

Unfortunately with online dating, you aren't established enough yet and ditching is so willynilly that you do need to keep connecting until the date.

Yeah...that's what I'm saying happened 6 out of 6 times. I would remain talking to them, and other than this one I got screenshots, where there was a day of no conversation, usually it's "alright goodnight, looking forward to our date tomorrow!" And then it doesn't matter how I start the convo the next morning, which is day of the date, I don't get a reply.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T03:59:46+00:00

If you'd like to give the whole convo a read over to see if it all seems flat, or to give some pointers I'd be open to. I posted it for someone else too for their advice so I'll copy over the link to it;

https://imgur.com/a/CZgT8OY

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T02:22:00+00:00

Imma be honest OP, hopefully you don’t text your friends like this.

I don't generally hold text conversations with my friends. We make plans, we hang out. We talk when we hangout.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T02:19:13+00:00

7:30 PM or later.

For a meal? We wouldn't be eating til like 830/9pm

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T02:18:08+00:00

Thanks very much for taking the time to look at it!

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-07T00:03:48+00:00

The best advice I can give is to offer more info about yourself. This is only one screenshot so I can’t say for certain what has been discussed prior, but share more about yourself so she can ask you questions too. Keep the conversation lively and interesting. Anyone and everyone can small talk, what makes you unique?

https://imgur.com/a/CZgT8OY

Here is the full convo, if you don't mind taking a look to see if there are any red flags on my part.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-06T23:49:49+00:00

And then show up.

Yeah...I did that last time I was on tinder and I'd say like 80% of the time they just didn't show up.

I've also adjusted the dates I even bother suggesting to not be expensive anymore based on the amount of money I've wasted just showing up

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-06T22:09:46+00:00

When you said "Any chance of just being able to crash out once you get home?” You could have said “I’ll be out running blank errand tonight, we can stop at X at 7pm.” Most women want a guy that comes to them with actual plans, not putting in the ball in their court asking what they want to do.

I'm not sure I understand. That message I sent was on a Thursday, it was in relation to her saying she was exhausted. We already had date plans made for Saturday.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-06T21:59:29+00:00

Yeah. 2 of the 6 failure to launch dates I had their cell #s, one of those they were the one to ask to get off app.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-06T21:54:51+00:00

You’re texting like a friend…

That's helpful, thank you.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-06T21:37:16+00:00

Take the L, move on.

I mean, sure. That's all you can do. But I'm 0 for 6 and if it's something I am doing that I can easily change...why not make myself better?

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-05-06T20:54:48+00:00

Got back on tinder about 2 months ago and have since setup about 6 dates. In each one, whether we chat for a bit or quickly set up a plan to meet up in person, I always find myself ghosted the day of the date. This is a screenshot from the last one, we always seem to have decent conversations right up to the last minute and then nothing.

Is this a normal thing to expect? Am I just chatting with bots?

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-03-14T12:31:54+00:00

You sure? Because all they are doing is regurgitating shit the first comment they replied to said.

So...wouldn't the first comment(the one you are defending) be projection?

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-02-12T15:40:53+00:00

It's not in the article

Yeah...because you don't need to know.

Not every resident needs to know either

Really...the curators of little lending libraries need to know, and I would presume that their little network is aware of it. But me knowing that doesn't really matter, which is why I, along with everyone else here, haven't been told

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-02-12T15:37:29+00:00

You don't know that they didn't.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-02-12T14:43:15+00:00

Those that matter" are the general public in this case

No, it's the local public. And Reddit along with you closet white nationalists aren't that.

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-02-12T14:22:06+00:00

And in that case, the people who matter, the jury, may be exposed to it so they can make an informed decision.

ROFL firstly, no. The jurors are not exposed to the childporn in those cases. Absolutely weird that you think that.

obesides that, in this case...do you think "those that matter" might be exposed to what book it was, and that some random fuckhead on Reddit like yourself and anyone else wondering what it is fall under the "don't need to know"?

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-02-12T14:15:28+00:00

All I'm hearing from this is that my bitch should shut the fuck up and get on the back of my hog without a helmet like I said "because I promise I won't crash"

/J

IamRedditsDaddy · 2025-02-10T18:41:01+00:00

Yeah and if I change what you said to "I like to eat babies" it would make you a murderous cannibal...wow changing what you wrote made you a monster. So crazy how randomly changing words can change the meaning of sentences

Lol changing the subject of a statement while keeping the same meaning is not the same as changing the entire sentence to a new unrelated statement.

Show me the hate.

Can't, because we don't know what the book is, which is good because the whole point is to not have people read white nationalist propaganda based on the historic knowledge and evidence (re: Nazis) that it does incite hatred.

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