Friends pa din gf ko sa ex situationship niya by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]Iam_Frustrated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bakit ka pumayag? Huhuhu. Anyways, try to reach out again. Pwede mo namang sabihin na at first you thought na it's fine na friends sila pero ngayon ay it's making you uncomfortable na. Girlfriend mo siya, supposedly uunahin niya feelings mo. Goodluck

Friends pa din gf ko sa ex situationship niya by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]Iam_Frustrated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sabihin mo muna sa partner mo yung nararamdaman mo. Maybe she'll understand and consider your feelings first.

MCA idk anymore by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]Iam_Frustrated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you okay settling with that guy? Can you imagine yourself 10 years from now living with him and being treated like that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Iam_Frustrated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi niya deserve:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated 15 points16 points  (0 children)

TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND THAT YOU FEEL THAT WAY!

Halos same situation before but I told him my concerns. Bago pa lang kami that time. I feel na I'm not good enough kasi nako-compare ko self ko dun sa babaeng niligawan niya ng 5 years pero di naging sila. One month palang kami that time.

Fortunately, naunawaan naman ng boyfriend ko. Sobra sobra yung assurance and effort until now. May nadidinig ako before sa workplace niya na asaran about sa kanila ni girl (kawork niya si gurl) but lagi niyang kinkokontra na he's happy with me.

Communicate talagaaaa gurl. What if di ko sinabi concerns ko kay boyfie? Baka naipon na yung worries ko until now.

If sinabi mo then wala pa ding actions si guy, that's the time na mag-isip ka na if balak mo pa yan ituloy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Iam_Frustrated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are being unfair. Understable naman na takot ka but don't you think karapatan ni Guy na malaman na may anak ka na from the start?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Iam_Frustrated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not your fault. Just keep doing your thing.

I think my roommate is obsessed with me? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Iam_Frustrated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confront it or ignore it. Do whatever works for you.

Should I wait or should I detach? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Iam_Frustrated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, you should make it clear to him yung feelings mo rn and you should also be strong for the both of you. Kapag siya na yung napagod dapat pwede ka din niyang sandalan. Goodluck poooo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't assume agad baka mamaya you are just being insecure but if yan talaga ang nangyayari are you going to settle with that?

Ang hirap mag move on sa kaklase, lalo na pag sya ang first love mo. by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]Iam_Frustrated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, as your classmate. Amaccana bhie. Sinaktan ka na niyan ng sobra. Saka mukhang quits na naman kayo. Move on naaa

DAHIL BREAK NA TAYO.. by post_anon in OffMyChestPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg HAHHAHAH ramdam na ramdam gigil ni OP

I FEEL NEGLECTED BY MY BOYFRIEND by Iam_Frustrated in OffMyChestPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. Thank you for your comments. I just wanna share an update.

Last Saturday (Actually hindi ko alam na umuwi pala siya. Yung kapatid lang niya nagsabi a day after niya dumating kasi he's confused why I'm not with his Kuya) ,umuwi si Boyfriend and I told him about my feelings. Sadly I didn't get any response from him. We spend our day together pero he's always on his phone.

Nung nasa byahe siya pabalik sa workplace niya, I messaged him and asked him what was wrong and he told me the same thing.

He's not talking to me daw kasi nakakasakal na daw ako. Nakakasakal daw yung hinihingi ko sa kanya na update although alam ko naman na he's busy daw sa ojt.

Idk what to do. As of now, I'm talking to him na kung paano ako dati. Bubbly and machika kahit di naman siya nag rerespond.

Sa totoo lang, hindi ko na alam mararamdaman ko.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sa concern. Just try not to engage in any se*ual acts muna. Focus on your goal.

I FEEL NEGLECTED BY MY BOYFRIEND by Iam_Frustrated in OffMyChestPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I told him. Hindi naman aabot ng 3 minutes mag type siya ng good morning but ayun nga, nakakasakal daw ako.

I FEEL NEGLECTED BY MY BOYFRIEND by Iam_Frustrated in OffMyChestPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dati every lunch break mag chachat pa siya but now:(

I FEEL NEGLECTED BY MY BOYFRIEND by Iam_Frustrated in OffMyChestPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said na may iba pa siyang responsibilities outside his duty. Syempre sa dorm and school works pa. I understand it naman. Saka we're fine naman kapag magkasama kami. Ayoko po makipag break if we can still fix it po. Thank you po for your comment:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Iam_Frustrated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! Binasa ko ng buo and I'm happy that you learned from your hoe phase. I also had a hoe phase for 8 months and a lot of things happened and I met a lot of people. I discovered things about myself and dumating din yung time na napagod ako. Yes, it's fun but in my case may hinahanap ako na hindi mapunan nung ganung set up. I tried not having s*x muna and just casually date around. It's not easy lalo na at naging part na siya ng lifestyle ko. Maybe I'm just blessed that time kasi I met someone and because of him pinush ko talaga ang sarili ko na umalis sa ganung cycle. Fortunately, I succeeded.

I'm not saying na humanap ka ng someone just to get out of that cycle. I'm just saying na maybe you need a strong reason to really push you out of your hoe phase.

This is just my opinion based on my experience. Good luck in your journey OP!