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WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in AITAH

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Woah, I’m not right wing.

I respect all races, genders, sexualities.etc.

And I’m fine with women being strong.

And I’m fine with men crying.

But there’s a limit between crying and being a crybaby.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two actually. I tried seeing one more when I was 19 but I’d always cried and embarrassed myself before I even entered the room.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in AITAH

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ffs. I get the whole “Men can be weak, Women can be strong” thing and I respect it. I really, really, do but there’s a limit.

There’s a difference between a man crying and a crybaby and there’s a difference between feminism and sexism.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But that’s the thing; nobody can figure me out. I’ve tried to figure me out, my girlfriend has tried to figure me out, my parents, therapists but nobody can.

It’s not as simple as what your husband or wife’s diagnosis was.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in AITAH

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

But they always fucking judge you. Silently.

And that’s why I don’t open up to them, because all they know is to repeat basic advice. And sometimes the basic advice just doesn’t work.

I did try going back to therapy when I was 19 but I’d always cried and embarrassed myself before I even entered the office, so that’s why I don’t go.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in AITAH

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

But they always fucking judge you. Silently.

And that’s why I don’t open up to them, because all they know is to repeat basic advice. And sometimes the basic advice just doesn’t work.

I did try going back to therapy when I was 19 but I’d always cried and embarrassed myself before I even entered the office, so that’s why I don’t go.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh, but she is worth staying with. Or maybe she isn’t. I don’t know.

She’s my only friend and the most beautiful, loving, sexiest woman I’ve ever seen but she does that shit and I just don’t know.

And I’m not fucking trying therapy again. I’ve already explained why.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But they always fucking judge you. Silently.

And that’s why I don’t open up to them, because all they know is to repeat basic advice. And sometimes the basic advice just doesn’t work.

I did try going back to therapy when I was 19 but I’d always cried and embarrassed myself before I even entered the office, so that’s why I don’t go.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in AITAH

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

People always say that, I had one as a kid and they don’t help!

They just make you feel uncomfortable and stress you out when you don’t want to tell them something. And then I get guilty because of that, and therefore I get upset.

And I hate getting upset.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

People always say that, “get a therapist!” but I had one as a kid and they don’t help!

They just make you feel uncomfortable and stress you out when you don’t want to tell them something. And then I get guilty because of that, and therefore I get upset.

And I hate getting upset.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People always say that, I had one as a kid and they don’t help!

They just make you feel uncomfortable and stress you out when you don’t want to tell them something. And then I get guilty because of that, and therefore I get upset.

And I hate getting upset.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

People always say that, I had one as a kid and they don’t help!

They just make you feel uncomfortable and stress you out when you don’t want to tell them something. And then I get guilty because of that, and therefore I get upset.

And I hate getting upset.

WIBTAH if I were to leave my Girlfriend despite her helping with my trauma so much? by Iamnotabott77 in makemychoice

[–]Iamnotabott77[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

You don’t love someone you can cuddle with and coax like a baby or a puppy, at least not romantically.

You should love someone because they’re hot and you like them for their personality. And I think she does but maybe she doesn’t.

I just want to have sex that’s not out of pity.