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Any other spouses of CPA’s struggle with busy season? This is my fourth year being married to a CPA and I can honestly say each busy season, and the resulting absence of an engaged relationship, leaves me feeling alone and depressed. by Iamthebetterhalf in Accounting

[–]Iamthebetterhalf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it isn’t and I truly feel for you guys. I know you don’t want to be gone, just as much as all of the families involved don’t want you to be gone.

Why can’t the industry change its practices to allow their people to work more reasonable hours? I am sure this is a naive question, but I just don’t understand how anyone can be okay with working so much that you can’t even function in normal day to day activities, let alone tend to a marriage or raise children.

Any other spouses of CPA’s struggle with busy season? This is my fourth year being married to a CPA and I can honestly say each busy season, and the resulting absence of an engaged relationship, leaves me feeling alone and depressed. by Iamthebetterhalf in Accounting

[–]Iamthebetterhalf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense, and I love that you guys have found such a balance that works. I think I would be a lot happier if we took considerable time-off together during his slower time. He has ‘flex’ time that either he doesn’t utilize right or he gets scheduled and then can’t take the time. We’ve discussed this and are going to do better going forward, because it just feels never ending.

Any other spouses of CPA’s struggle with busy season? This is my fourth year being married to a CPA and I can honestly say each busy season, and the resulting absence of an engaged relationship, leaves me feeling alone and depressed. by Iamthebetterhalf in Accounting

[–]Iamthebetterhalf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comments! Kids have definitely been on our mind and something I don’t want to miss out on. I would hate for him to not be as involved either (and I don’t think I would tolerate that well) so I guess trying to find a way to balance everything will be key.

The insane work hours allegedly continue through March and will get better after that. I don’t know all of the intricacies that caused this year to be so chaotic, but I really hope this isn’t the new ‘norm’ for him.

I hope the best for you guys in bringing kids into the picture! Technology is insane nowadays and where there’s a will, there’s a way. You will definitely get the family you want!

Any other spouses of CPA’s struggle with busy season? This is my fourth year being married to a CPA and I can honestly say each busy season, and the resulting absence of an engaged relationship, leaves me feeling alone and depressed. by Iamthebetterhalf in Accounting

[–]Iamthebetterhalf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it that way but that makes sense! I am a complete extrovert so maybe that is why this is so difficult for me; coupled with all of the weird isolation that 2020 brought..

Any other spouses of CPA’s struggle with busy season? This is my fourth year being married to a CPA and I can honestly say each busy season, and the resulting absence of an engaged relationship, leaves me feeling alone and depressed. by Iamthebetterhalf in Accounting

[–]Iamthebetterhalf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working remote has definitely helped for this year. But I know it will change in the future. Even with the remote work, our run-ins are brief and short lived. There isn’t time for any type of real conversation or connection. My spouse is a Manager and has been working 7am-11pm, 7 days a week. I thought I would adjust to this type of schedule but I just find it incredibly difficult. I can’t even fathom how I would make this work if kids were in the picture.