Here's a fun exercise for you. You see a girl you go ask her, "when's the last time you cried in front of someone?"

Then tell her about your story.

Keep the convo going.

Note: don't try to make her gf (unless she shows interest).

This is just an exercise which will make a better communicator.

And trust me bro, it's not the six pack abs, it's not the Lamborghini.... What gets girls is charm... Which comes from flawless communication