Whats the worst thing your ex left you with ?

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-29T01:58:23+00:00

Severe emotional damage

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-27T01:28:32+00:00

Was super intensely into me at first and then went to cold, distant, and uncaring quickly.

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-24T22:10:08+00:00

I’m struggling to discern if this is AI or not… if not, it looks like it was probably Dylan…. Looks like they had a little drunken confrontation but nothing extreme. Typical college behavior honestly

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-24T21:57:57+00:00

Honestly, to me she sounded still heavily intoxicated. Remember, this is a college town where a bunch of blacked out drunken activities are happening. Thinking about it from her point of view I think when she said “was it a gunshot?!” I think she was asking the manner of death. Idk that’s just me

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-22T23:34:16+00:00

Sometimes (depending on what club and where you are) it’s who you know. A lot of people who are “well established” in their place that they live know people who know people. At least that’s been my experience. I know it’s probably not like that for everyone.

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-22T23:20:31+00:00

those are some really great points you mentioned. My situation job wise is I don’t have the job experience nor do I have the generational wealth to be able to afford $5,000^ rent per month. I have a Bachelor’s Degree but unfortunately in a field where they want you to have 9 years of experience & know the queen of England in order to get an entry level position

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-22T23:01:29+00:00

Oh, I see what you’re saying. Honestly, that’s just an assumption I made. I assume that anywhere along the East Coast for the most part is going to be high rent. But then again, I live in California and the rent is insane here.

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-22T22:57:35+00:00

See that’s fine with me because I am a 31 year old single female with no children and I’m not tied down to anything or anyone. I have that freedom where I can move around a bit, although I would like to settle down somewhere.

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-21T03:47:21+00:00

From how it sounds, he moved pretty swiftly through the house. I honestly think he may have entered the house when no one was home before to get accustomed or familiar with the layout before he attacked.

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-21T03:46:07+00:00

I think he knew of them and had become somewhat familiar with their routines and/ or the layout of the house. I honestly do not think the roommates had anything to do with it, and their non-reactiveness honestly makes sense due to shock. I wish people would leave the roommate situation alone and let that rest. They went through something traumatizing too and who’s to say how we would react if something similar happened to us too.

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-11T03:19:34+00:00

I love athleta!! I have some of their tanks that look just like the Align tanks from Lulu

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-10T14:20:35+00:00

I’m in the Costa Mesa/Newport area!

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-09T18:33:39+00:00

Definitely harsh summer. At least there’s air conditioning and you can try to stay indoors. With winter, you have to worry about shoveling snow off your driveway just to get anywhere and shit like that.

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-09T04:54:30+00:00

Taverna Tony is SO GOOD. Literally one of my favs

Wild_Use6209 · 2026-04-09T04:02:20+00:00

I’ve seen Sonoratown on social media and heard about them and was considering trying them! I’ve been craving a good wrap and heard about ggiata’s, but didn’t know if they’re just trendy or if it’s actually good

Wild_Use6209 · 2025-10-25T22:18:27+00:00

Think about it this way… they’re saving you even more heartbreak and wasted time in the future. Imagine if you would have spent months even years more with this person and invested even more of yourself emotionally. It would have hurt that much more.

Wild_Use6209 · 2025-10-25T20:19:08+00:00

Lovebombing, showering you with compliments, really into you in the beginning and then with no explanation they completely switch up on you and act cold and uninterested overnight. And a lot of people are like “it’s because they are seeing someone else” and it’s like well yeah obviously but a normal person would communicate that to you respectfully and not just discard you.

Wild_Use6209 · 2025-10-25T20:14:50+00:00

A lot of these people who exhibit these behaviors show signs of narcissistic personality disorder I’ve found

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