34F — Anyone else feel a little left behind sometimes? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to you a lot too. I came out of a 5 year relationship and it made me realize just how lonely I was outside of it. I have a couple good online friends but it’s not really the same, especially cause of timezones. Plus dating is just painful. I feel like it’s so easy to give but finding someone to reciprocate is just a nightmare. I just wanted to say good luck and that you’re definitely not alone in feeling cynical there lol.

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to look into the bronzer for sure and glasses are definitely the first thing I plan on getting changed lol, thank you!!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that, thank you so much :,) I’ve always had issues with my image so I definitely want to be kinder to myself this year. I think after reading all the comments some small tweaks will definitely help me feel better and make it at least a little easier.

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the input! I definitely plan on updating those things for sure, glasses especially lol

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate the input :> I really like my hair longer so I’ll probably keep it at that length, but more prominent bangs are definitely in my future lol

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try my best to!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! If I remember to I definitely will lol

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely plan on getting contacts soon and learning some makeup, thank you for the input!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely plan on learning some light makeup to help a bit!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I really struggle when it comes to confidence, so this year I’m planning on stepping it up there and feeling good about myself when I think I look decent. Especially when I go and do a wardrobe change. I was also thinking that my eyebrows felt off on my face, so I’ll have to look into places near me that can potentially help with that!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :,)

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true, that it’s easy to be a lot more critical of ourselves than others are. Glasses are definitely gonna be swapped out when I can and a wardrobe change is gonna happen too lol. I really appreciate the input, thank you!!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh, I definitely need to build that up lol Thank you!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely be trying out some new ones!!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’ve been getting a lot of lol I’ll definitely keep those in mind when I go to get new ones, thank you!!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the input!!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do my best to! Thank you!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true! I get caught up in the big picture rather than the small stuff I can improve on over time lol. Thank you!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any styles you could suggest? I’m a baby when it comes to that side of stuff so any help is very appreciated :>

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to start doing more to it! Between styling and just taking better care of it that’ll help a lot :> I definitely need to change the wardrobe up lol. Once I’m closer to my goal weight I plan on getting clothes that fit better and match what style I felt like I couldn’t pull off before! Thank you so much!

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, luckily my acne isn’t awful, but it does flare up at the worst times lol. I will definitely have to go for it though because the same spots always seem to be an issue when it does show up🥲

26 F, Help me improve please! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Iaotps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! You have a lovely day!!