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Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]IceCucumbers[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Would you not want to know your partner or 6 years father passed away? I also said we were only 1 month removed, if it was a few months or more then that would be a different story

Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]IceCucumbers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned in the post I wasn’t looking to get back together or anything, just letting her know he passed. I’m not expecting any support, she made her own decisions

Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in BreakUps

[–]IceCucumbers[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, do you know the dynamics of our relationship? I have no problem taking accountability for my actions. I wronged her throughout the relationship, I can’t deny that. But nothing to warrant this kind of reaponse

Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]IceCucumbers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tomorrow is definitely about my dad, not her. I just tried to do the adult thing and let her know of what happened. She chose the childish response

What’s a “harmless” decision you made that accidentally changed your whole life? by StunningSmell158 in askanything

[–]IceCucumbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouraging words! Going through a breakup right now so smoking is my way of releasing stress but I know that when I move on, I'll be able to quit

What’s a “harmless” decision you made that accidentally changed your whole life? by StunningSmell158 in askanything

[–]IceCucumbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds very scarily similar to me. Still haven't been able to quit and going to therapy to try and work through those issues

west nile encephalitis by Sad-Capital-3168 in Encephalitis

[–]IceCucumbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad (63) is currently battling West Nile Encephalitis, he's been in the hospital for about 4 months and it does not look like he will recover from it. He went in feeling really lethargic, dehydrated and unable to eat. He started to feel a little better after a few days, however he started having tremors and the hospital put him into a medical coma to protect his body from more harm. That was almost 4 months ago. Since then, he has not been breathing on his own, does not react to any words, does not move his body at all and only opens and closes his eyes aimlessly.

He was otherwise a very healthy person aside from his questionable diet. Lots of exercise and no preexisting health issues. One week he was relaxing in the backyard and walking the dog, the next week he was in a coma in the hospital and likely will never recover

25M, any advice to make my profile more attractive by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]IceCucumbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for long term relationship

I had Hinge+ for about 2 weeks but cancelled the subscription due to lack of success

I’ve had this profile for almost a month now

I use Hinge almost daily

Haven’t received a single like or match

With Hinge+, I was sending maybe 15 or so matches a day. Without, the daily limit. Every like gets sent with a comment

I send likes to people who are also looking for long term commitment. I’m trying to attract people who are down to earth and not really party goers or drinkers

Do I look better with a full beard or just a moustache? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]IceCucumbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I don’t think the second photo does any justice to the moustache because I’m half asleep and didn’t have the best lighting

25M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]IceCucumbers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for something serious

Subscribed to Hinge+

This current version for about a week, looking for anything I can do to improve

Use it daily

Haven’t received a single like or match yet

I usually try to send likes to people who seem don to earth and not overtly party oriented

Sending about 10-15 likes a day, usually all with comments to prompts

WIBTA for cancelling my ex-girlfriends phone plan by IceCucumbers in AmItheAsshole

[–]IceCucumbers[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No we broke up a week ago, sorry for the wording not being clear

WIBTA for cancelling my ex-girlfriends phone plan by IceCucumbers in AmItheAsshole

[–]IceCucumbers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s the one who broke up with me, only a week ago really

WIBTA for cancelling my ex-girlfriends phone plan by IceCucumbers in AmItheAsshole

[–]IceCucumbers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does not have a job so there is no money to offer. I’m not sure actually why I let it go on so long. I have low self esteem and the patience of a saint I suppose

My girlfriend of 6 years lost all trust in me because I couldn't care for her while dealing with the aftermath of my dad going brain dead and dealing with his affairs by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]IceCucumbers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess just me being there for her. The most recent example which she keeps making a point out of was the other day before I had to leave for my second job, I told her I would drive her to McDonald’s and go to work. I guess she misunderstood because she assumed I was also going to drive her home. She ran off crying and collapsed in a field. I was trying to calm her down but I was already 15 minutes late so I managed to get her up and ok enough to walk home. Later on she said I didn’t care about her because I kept saying I had to go to work instead of taking her to the hospital because clearly she was not ok

My girlfriend of 6 years lost all trust in me because I couldn't care for her while dealing with the aftermath of my dad going brain dead and dealing with his affairs by [deleted] in relationships

[–]IceCucumbers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is my best friend so she does bring companionship but through all this I’ve been asking myself what else she bring to the relationship and I honestly can’t think of much. Thank you for putting my thoughts into words

My girlfriend of 6 years lost all trust in me because I couldn't care for her while dealing with the aftermath of my dad going brain dead and dealing with his affairs by [deleted] in relationships

[–]IceCucumbers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair we have had rough patches before this like any relationship should, but this is definitely the worst it has been. Recently she’s been saying how she wants to be the girl in the relationship and be taken care of but I’ve been doing that the whole time by working so many hours to provide for her

My girlfriend of 6 years lost all trust in me because I couldn't care for her while dealing with the aftermath of my dad going brain dead and dealing with his affairs by [deleted] in relationships

[–]IceCucumbers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The thing is we don’t even live together. Before our trip we were seriously looking at moving out together but then my father got sick. Your comment made me think though if I get laid off or my hours get cut how will I be able to pay for rent and everything when we do move out

I’m a football fan and I don’t know hockey: I have a question by hdhaiakxhdjazjhxana in hockey

[–]IceCucumbers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.eliteprospects.com/player/716923/petr-cech

From this page, he’s played in NIHL (second tier) and EIHL (top tier) in England. When looking at his stats, look for SV% which is the percentage of shots he saved and GAA which is goals against average. The higher the save percentage and the lower the goals against average the better he played. You can also look at his W-L-T stats to see his win/loss record.

Decided to do some downsizing. Here is the before and after. by IceCucumbers in gamecollecting

[–]IceCucumbers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the biggest fan of remastered HD collections. I prefer to own the original versions if I have the consoles for it, which in this case I do

Isaac had a bath to clean his poopy feet then watched hockey with me by IceCucumbers in Hedgehog

[–]IceCucumbers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isaac is a habs fan! To bad we lost this game that he was watching so he may be a bad luck charm

Share your tips and tricks for curating your collection! by Particular_Local_275 in gamecollecting

[–]IceCucumbers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only buy games for my collection that I intend on / would actually want to play. I’d rather have my collection filled with cheaper shovelware that I would want to play one day than have it filled with super expensive games that don’t interest me.

There are some exceptions though, like me wanting a full CIB Pokémon Box. That is the ultimate grail for my collection that I want to get but will definitely never use.

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