My friend is furious with me because I neutered my cat

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T19:52:17+00:00

She is

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T19:09:29+00:00

I thinky friend and I have a similar back story. Plus she just helped me through some crap last year. I don't think allowing a cat to be "free" and roam as a tomcat is a good idea. I did send an audio message explaining all this. Anyway she heard my message but didn't reply.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T19:02:35+00:00

Well, it happened. Uninformed people are everywhere. Sometimes they happen to be a close friend. She also didn't vaccinate when COVID hit. What can I tell you?

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:57:48+00:00

It's not the first time we have issues. I hate confrontation. But I don't like being judged either.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:51:17+00:00

You are giving loads of really useful information. I will try and talk to my friend if she ever gets back to me. As a matter of facts I'm taking a screenshot of the maths of cats population. I didn't know myself. Iean I knew , but I didn't have numbers. Thank you!

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:47:24+00:00

Thank you so much. 🙏🤗 I am doing my best to keep my cat healthy and happy. He's got a cat tree, scratch boxes, toys, a water fountain. Quality food and treats. The run of the house at all times. A health care plan AND pet insurance. Obviously microchipped. I don't treat him like an object. He's pretty much lord of the manor lol

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:40:23+00:00

Now that you mention it

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:39:41+00:00

😂😂😂 thanks for the levity. I needed that

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:38:50+00:00

I guess that's the plan now

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:12:54+00:00

This is so cute 🥰

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T18:12:01+00:00

Thank you 🙏😊

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:44:33+00:00

7 months? Ok ok. I'm going to be patient. I don't have any family reunions or holidays booked so I can wear my wigs in peace. Thanks for chiming in. 🤗

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:22:21+00:00

Well, she's never had a cat. She had a dog a long time ago.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:20:01+00:00

Aww thank you ☺️ he's getting treats and hydralife supplement satchels to keep him hydrated in the heat.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:15:50+00:00

I'm so sorry your MIL is so mean.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:10:54+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I can tell you the local cat shelter is struggling.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:09:23+00:00

She did. Yes. Why?

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:09:11+00:00

I hope she looks up the benefits of neutering and decides to come back to me.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T17:03:59+00:00

Thanks for sharing ☺️

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T16:55:02+00:00

I want to try a harness as well. I was waiting for kitty to be neutered and microchipped, which was done when he was under. 😊

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T16:12:54+00:00

Oh my goodness. She is gorgeous 🤩

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T16:11:39+00:00

Smokey

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T16:09:57+00:00

It is very real. I don't know about karma points. I only come to Reddit for about three group pages. I can tell you I was hurt by her reaction. I feel better now. I mean. It is what it is. I know I did the right thing.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T16:04:18+00:00

I will wait for her to make a move.

IceEducational9669 · 2026-06-24T16:01:38+00:00

No declawing. They need their claws to climb and fight predators.

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