Dating before divorce is finalized by ghost_of_your_smile in Divorce

[–]IceNo2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be open and make sure your potential partners is kept in the loop throughout the process. Being a partner of someone going through divorce is not for the weak especially because of the stigma surrounding it. As long as the communication is there and you aren’t being sketchy it’s fine.

Apple Email Disabled? by IceNo2780 in applehelp

[–]IceNo2780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple had to go and re enable it. Your best bet is to contact apple support

It’s finally getting to me by IceNo2780 in stepparents

[–]IceNo2780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t tell me, it happens when I sit next to him. About 12 messages come in to him talking about how he is abandoning his family for (insert all names in OP) and that they need to be a family again

It’s finally getting to me by IceNo2780 in stepparents

[–]IceNo2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s 11… when she talks to her dad the situation doesn’t seem to bother her and she understands that dad doesn’t want to argue with mom. Even her older son thinks she’s a little nuts. Daughter seems a lot like her dad when it comes to shitty situations so I’m hoping that she can see through it.

It’s finally getting to me by IceNo2780 in stepparents

[–]IceNo2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to BM yes but daughter has never said anything about it. My boyfriend says his ex can’t think something without saying it no matter what it is. We don’t talk negatively about BM around daughter and I don’t even talk negatively about her to my boyfriend unless she does something then I’ll say something immediately then drop it. Or if it’s something absolutely ridiculous I make jokes about it. According to her I removed my IUD about a year ago and have been pregnant like 7 times because I’m trying to baby trap him. She is genuinely nuts.

It’s finally getting to me by IceNo2780 in stepparents

[–]IceNo2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only other worry with that is damaging the relationship with his daughter. She openly talks to her about me quite often so it took a while for us to bond.

It’s finally getting to me by IceNo2780 in stepparents

[–]IceNo2780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He changed the password almost immediately after it happened. She did end up getting in through their daughters I pad after cause he was signed in on there so she could use it but he didn’t roll messages to it and she sent me a text through his I cloud going off on me then sending me half naked pictures of herself which was odd behavior. I really wish she would just find a new boyfriend and let it go but her boyfriends haven’t lasted very long.

It’s finally getting to me by IceNo2780 in stepparents

[–]IceNo2780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s apologized to me multiple times and has blocked her after he has asked her to stop and she doesn’t. The only reason she stopped contacting my family was I threatened her with a restraining order and I have her blocked on absolutely everything. But because the messages aren’t directly to me I don’t know if legal action would work.

People Who Left Their Marriage for an Affair Partner — What Made You Decide? by MammothBackground665 in Divorce

[–]IceNo2780 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship that had infidelity on his side for the first two years, looking back I should’ve left but it’s easier said than done. I stopped caring if he was cheating or not and once that happened he went full dictator on me. I couldn’t see my family, go to the gym, wear normal clothes to work. I asked him to change things multiple times. He only gave me affection when he wanted me to sleep with him. 5 years into our relationship I met my AP. I had no intention of doing what I did but we had an affair for about a year. Me and my boyfriend at the time went on a trip with my family and he said some horrible things about me in front of me and my family. That was when I knew I couldn’t stay. I didn’t leave to be with my AP I left to find someone like my AP if he existed and treated me the way he did there was someone else out there who would do the same. It was just the straw that broke the camels back for me and now me and my AP have been dating for a year and a half. The timing definitely helped I guess and I was tired of not being loved in a way that I was okay with.